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Parent to Parent!
Amidst the holiday rush, it’s vital to prioritize your well-being. We, as parents, strive to create a magical holiday for our kids and loved ones. However, in this pursuit, we often need to remember to take care of ourselves.
It’s so easy to get caught up in the holiday glitz and glamour, the twinkling lights, the festive decorations, and the excitement of the season, and get an overwhelming, intoxicating feeling that makes you GO GO GO. We get swept away by trying to enjoy every second with the people we love.
If you’re anything like the character Clark Griswold from the classic holiday movie ‘National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation, ‘who always goes above and beyond to create the perfect holiday, then YOU ARE MY PEOPLE!

The need to go to sleep late and wake up early so I can capture all the moments is so real and exhausting.
But I have found a way to fix that issue!
I hope these TIPS help you
- Don’t put all the holiday responsibility on yourself
- Everyday make someone different in charge of taking pics and planning a meal
- Have a spa day
- HYDRATE as soon as you wake up
- Stock up on fruits and vegetables and easy-to-grab healthy snacks
- Go for family walks ~ make it a priority to enjoy fresh air~
Make a conscious effort to carve out time for yourself. It’s not selfish, it’s necessary. You have the power to prioritize your well-being.
I would love to know what you are doing for yourself today.
Whatever it may be, make sure you are sprinkling in a bit of holiday joy. As for me, I’ll be going tonight and tomorrow morning to watch my daughter play basketball. But in the meantime, and in between times, I’ll be watching Holiday movies and enjoying good food and lots of quality time with my family.
Cheers to a safe, fun, and festive weekend!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


You mean Christmas doesn’t mean “Go, go, go” in Spanish or French or Chinese? Or some other language? I swear it did. Great reminder Belladonna.
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LOLOLOL, right! And that’s why we all look like crack heads after the Holidays. LOL
Just beat up!
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Haha, gotta love Clark!
I’m resting and walking for the next couple of days to let the new injection work. We have entertainment tonight at the clubhouse, so ill enjoy that. Now I’ll be ready for any festivities that come my way leading up to and beyond the holiday season. And, I wont have to miss anymore bike rides!
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Kim that’s so good!!!!! I’m so happy for you, living a pain free life and being able to do all things you enjoy. Time to celebrate!!!!
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LOL ~ Excellent wisdom, Belladonna ❤
“Well I’m gonna park the cars and get check the luggage, and well, I’ll be outside for the season.” — Clark Griswold
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LOLOLOLOL right, after he planned a big familly gathering and now he wants to hide outside. LOL
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What a positive and wise list Queen B! Look out for yourself! 🎅🏼📸🎄🎁🤶🏼
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Thank you Beautiful!!!!
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Oh sistah, you are so very welcome as always! 😊💖🤗
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We will continue to enjoy good food and cosy family coughs and sniffs on the sofa, we have mycoplasma pneumonia, so called “cold” pneumonia. So, we will definitely spoil each other as much as possible.
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Awwww oh no, I’m so sorry y’all are sick. I hope you both stay warm and snuggly. Get well soon.
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am I the only one on this planet that’s never watched that movie?
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UHHHHHHHH YEAH!!!! Warren what the heck? LOL
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the only Christmas movie I’ve ever watched more than once is Serendipity, and nope, not a Chevy Chase fan…
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Oh I get that! Either folks love him or dislike him.
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Enjoy your weekend my festive fun friend! 🎄🏀 🎥
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You too beautiful!
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🙏🏻🥰💃🏻
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Great tips Bella. Learning to share the load is very essential
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That’s where I struggle so I’m switching things up…well trying. LOL
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All the best 💖
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love all of your tips. I have decided to try something this year. No spending, or less only for my grandchildren and my mother. I stayed home Thanksgiving, cleaned, cooked and put up my tree. I am doing the same for x-Mas. At 60 I enjoy a less expensive and peaceful holiday season. Happy Holidays 🥳
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I really think that’s the best plan for Christmas. Less expensive and just spending time with the people you love. We shouldn’t go broke from one Holiday.
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Really fantastic advice! There’s no pointing of stretching ourselves thin, we need to take care of ourselves too.
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Yes for sure Pooja!
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Great post!
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Thank you Dawn!
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Great Tips, Bella!!!! I’m on a 4th review of the 10th plan.. lol.. will keep you posted ! ❤️
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Hey that’s okay! LOLOL
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😂💗
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What a great post and wonderful tips, Bella! Thanks for the reminder to slow down and take care of ourselves. Enjoy your weekend! 💞
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You are so welcome! I hope you had a great weekend.
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Great tips sis! You on a roll.❤️
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Awww thank you so much for saying that. I’m trying!
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❤️❤️ You’re most welcome.
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Excellent tips that are truly achievable! Thank you for your insights, Bella.
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Thank you so much!!!! They are definitely achievable!
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You’re welcome Bella.
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I have been in a funk! I need to move my body more.
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That will help you tremendously!!! You got this.
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Love this. These tips are a lifesaver. Definitely need to remember to take a breath and enjoy the season. Wishing you a fun, festive, and a less exhausting holiday weekend! 🎄✨
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I’m so glad you found them helpful! I hope you have a wonderful christmas!
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You’re right. Having time set aside to relax is vital to not becoming burnt out. I’ve learned that over the years. It helps so much to slow down and take a break when possible
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