I'm Belladonna and I'm using my flashlight to guide you through life. You shouldn't have to stumble in the dark when I've done it enough for the both of us.
Why is it so hard to tell the people that you love NO? Even if we see that by saying yes to everything may be killing them. It’s a fine line between enabling someone and wanting them to feel satisfied. Notice I didn’t say happy, just happy. So many of us love so hard that…
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Your walk got me. I knew he was what I wanted when I saw that carefree, I control the room, and I’m a little cocky walk stroll past me. I had to laugh because my first thought was oh, he bad bad. He just walked right on by with his head up, chest out, and one…
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Am I what you had in mind when you were looking for love Wanting somebody to hold you when you feel alone Loving you when you are right and wrong When your flaws are being shown Exposing your weaknesses that you tried to camouflage Am I what you had in mind when you think of…
Read MoreI walked into my son’s room and plopped down on the bed like I always do and just started chit-chatting. You have to understand that I have 3 kids a busy life, but I will always make one on one time every day to check in with my kiddos. No matter how busy I am, they need to…
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I didn’t want to stare, but I couldn’t look away. There she sat on the bench waiting for her break to end so she could go back to work at a job that she hated. It made her feet hurt and her backache. She didn’t think she was smart enough to get a better job, so…
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To say that life is challenging is an understatement. No one knows what life is going to bring tomorrow or next week or next year for that matter. All we can do is hold on to today and give it all of our energy. Now I have to admit that I didn’t always have this…
Read MoreBeing a parent is one of the best gifts that can be given to you. It’s a tricky gift, and sometimes you want to hand it off to the highest bidder, but you don’t. I’m blessed to have three kids that just so happen to bring about every emotion known to man in one day.…
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As I approached my car, which seemed like a mile away from him, he screams out MA”AM ARE YOU MARRIED?
Read MoreI welcome everyone new to Belladonna’s Flashlight and for everyone else, Thank you for staying! I hope you enjoy being apart of the fam and will continue to read and join in on discussions. I love hearing from you all.
Read MoreI’m having a moment today, and the tears are streaming down my entire existence. It is happening more and more, and I can’t control it, so I figure let me put on a sad song and look at old pictures so I can really enjoy my cry.
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