I have a story that I’m sure many of you can relate to-the ongoing battle between our love for food and our desire to stay fit.
So, there I was, on a noble quest to eat healthier and exercise regularly. I was on a roll until my husband brought home these donuts that were so good—they made you want to slap somebody! These weren’t just any donuts; they tasted like they were handcrafted by the divine himself.
He brought home a dozen, and only four people, including me, were home to consume this box of deliciousness. Every time I walked past the kitchen, I stared at the box and hoped and prayed that one would start calling my name because then I would know we were meant to be together.
To make a long story short, I ate three of them, and well after my sugar high, I crashed!
And as I lay on the floor regretting my whole life, I shot daggers at my husband for doing this to me. He knows damn well donuts like these are my kryptonite, my Achilles heel, my… well, you get the point.
Later that day, I went to the gym to work it off. As I was running on the treadmill, all I could think about was how amazing those donuts were. I was sweating like a pig and panting like a dog, and all I could think about was that box of donuts and how my 300-pound son was home from college and could swipe the last one.
So I did what any foodie would do: I ended my workout early and sped home like a race car driver!

It’s a constant battle between my love for food and my desire to be fit! The struggle is real, but I’m no quitter, so I will continue to eat all my delicious food. I’m committed like that!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


I know what you mean! We have been visiting friends and family that want to feed us constantly and I just can’t say no right now. So, ill have to beef up the fitness when I can.
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Never turn down good food, at least that’s my motto. LOL
Food is my motivation!
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Love your post and love cooking always try to prepare healthy food, but sometimes…
It’s can be a combinations of not to healthy with healthier, well thank’s for share.
Have an amazing new week full of blessngs!
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You are definitely right! Love the combination and finding a good balance. Have a wonderful week Elvira.
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Thank’s for your kindness dear.
Have a wonderful week as well.
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You are normal. Happy to know
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Oh for sure!!!! LOL
I”m a huge foodie!
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So cute! When the kids come back home…the food wars begin 🤦🏾♀️
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Food war! LOLOLOL I love that!
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The struggle is real 🍩
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Sure is!!!
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It’s the best strategy that good like this doesn’t crosses the threshold of the home. 🤭
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Sadje I wish I could at least control myself and not turn into a crazy lady. LOLOL
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I think you can- mostly. Some relapses are allowed as we all are human
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Nice post 🌺🌺
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Thank ya!
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I call my wife Jezebel when she brings home something that I like but is currently on my no list. To make matters worse. . . I know that she’s just trying to be nice. But it’s so tempting and so hard to say no. Ha, ha. Ugh.
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LMAO!!!! I feel ya Brian! I feel like a newly released cage bear when he brings home the things I love.
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I recently regressed and began overeating and gained a significant amount of weight. I seem to be getting it back under control now. In my experience with weight loss, exercise is very important but it’s more what we put in our mouths. It’s possible to eat so much that it can’t be worked off. You look great Bella so I think you can handle an occasional indulgence.
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Thank you Ruby! don’t ya wish it was just as easy to get the weight off as it to put it on? Life is backwards. LOL
So glad that you are on your healthy journey!
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Hahaha. My husband sabotages us all the time too. Oh to be able to eat whatever and have no guilt.
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LOLOLOL they know how to get us! Wouldn’t that be nice?
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It would be heaven
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Really would!
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donuts and chocolate chocolate cake is my kryptonite as well
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OH YES!!!!! Same here.
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While I understand your struggle, there’s also something to be said for allowing yourself a little grace when it comes to devouring something you really like.
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For sure! I give myself grace. However 3 to for 4 donuts is a bit much.
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“So, there I was, on a noble quest to eat healthier … ” I knew already there that I would love this post! I can so absolutely relate!
Did you crash physically from the sugar? That would be awful. Though I did notice that lately my bloodpressure rises when I eat a lot of sweet stuff.
We try to live healthier, but it is so hard. Like today, when I had four bananas that threatened to get bad and simply had to be transformed into a cake, right? I hate to throw food away. We ate half, I hid the second half away, so that my husband cannot secretly eat it. 😉
It is like some writer once said: giving up sugar (smoking in his case) is easy, I do it every day! 😉 😀 ❤
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LOLOLOLOLOL! I love that line and I must use it. Stella I made banana bread the other day because I could not bing myself to toss those mushy bananas.
That is hilarious that you hid it from your husband. LOLOL
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I have to …
I give you a link to a story he made up to justify himself, then you can see what HE is like, MUCH worse than me … 😉 😀
Das Kakao-Mysterium … The cocoa mystery – Stella, oh, Stella (birgitdiestarkeblog.com)
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Oh great! Heading to read it now.
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you just made me laugh so hard, girl! Love your candid honesty… the struggle is real! Hugs
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Thank you beautiful! I fall but I get up again. LOL
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Oh no, not the kryptonite donuts or doughnuts! 🍩🍩🍩 Gurl Queen B, if you didn’t eat those donuts, then I would think you were a robot! Thank you for letting us know that you are a real person, 🙏🏼 and comfort food is not always a bad thing, unless you overdose on it! But that depends on what the overdose is! LOL 🤣😜😂
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Girl I love me some food! That’s the only reason I workout all the other benefits are not a turn on for me. But give a sista a piece of cake or anything chocolate as motivation, the boom I’ll get my exercise on. LOL
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😂😅🤣 Girl Queen B, I am right there with you sistah! Chocolate is a delicious motivator…to eat and then work off later! 🍫🍩🍫
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You know that’s right! LOL
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🥰🍩💖
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Just had one earlier. Lol The struggle is definitely real. 🤣
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I’m jealous!!! I’m getting me a few on Saturday. I love the struggle. LOL
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Lol. Enjoy. 😌
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It’s not easy avoiding some foods in order to stay healthy
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I’d rather not! LOL
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Hey, you only ate 4.. hahahaha! I get it GF. I used to eat a box of chocolates in one “session” on the tm 🥺😂
Don’t know when it stopped.. but TG it did.. lol
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LOLOL I’ve never felt closer to someone!
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You can count on me-:)😂😜❣️
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LOLOL
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What an ending! It’s funny – so many of my food temptations have the same ending! 🙂
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LOL! I’m so glad you can relate.
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Haha… I loved how you left the gym for the last one. I always tell myself, as much as I want to stay fit, I should also eat good and enjoy the deliciousness around. But should always apply a balance, eat all the good I want but in small proportions. So far it has worked. I love how you’ve narrated the story…
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Thank you so much Kinge! Balance is definitely apart of my life but chocolate calls my name. LOL
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This is torture. I have a similar struggle
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What’s your struggle food?
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Chocolate, donuts, cake .. that kinda thing
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Oh yes, same!
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I thought so… I hope you manage to keep the craving at bay
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Nahhh that would be boring. LOL
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That’s true but sometimes I just need to keep away from the bad things lol
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I feel ya!
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I know 🙂
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Another fun read. 😁 No one blames you. Doughnuts are heavenly because dough, sugar and hot oil equals a solid reason to stay alive. 😁😋
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The perfect reason to be alive. LOL
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Amen! 🥂
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It’s difficult to overcome such temptations. A dilemma indeed.
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Right! The struggle will never end. LOL
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Haha! Thank you!
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She raced home, fast and furious, stared down struggle. Dared to be tempted, to do it again, and again. Tess her sweetly, her Belle… y, or her as the Don, of her heart! Blessings, my sista! 😊✌🏾
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LOLOLOLOLO Warren you are good! I have to share this.
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🙏🏽🙏🏽😊👍🏾
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hahaha! Your so funny but your right, the struggle is real, but doughnuts, mmm! 😁😁💖💖
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LOL thank you! They are so good!!!
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Oh man I had something similar at work someone brought donuts
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Coworkers are the worse. LOL
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True lol
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Guilty, I love candy
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LOL me too!
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