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Not Broken But Hurt

No one is too broken to be fixed. In fact, you are not broken, but you are hurt and need to be healed!

There was a time when I believed the problem was me, that my soul was irreparably broken. I remember feeling this way after a particularly harsh criticism from someone I used to know. I initially dismissed it as a figment of my imagination but soon realized I wasn’t the one at fault.

I’m just the way God planned for me to be!

If my directness or boldness unsettles you, then the issue doesn’t rest with me; it’s yours to bear. Embracing my space and voicing my thoughts is a treasure I hold dear, a testament to the power I’ve found in accepting myself. Allowing someone to walk arrogantly into my life, tell me who they think I am, and expect me to believe them is a game I choose to play.

You see, I only play the games that I know I’ll win!

This person thought I was broken, I was hurt and needed healed, there’s a difference.

When you’re broke, brokish, and broke like, people will feel like they can talk to you and treat you any way they please. And they will have you believing that you are too broken to be fixed. But honey, let me tell you. As soon as — and I do mean as soon as you (ASAP)—find your voice, your strength, your power, and conclude that you are not broken. You’re just hurt and need to be healed; no one will have the nerve to speak negativity over you.

Now, what they say and do behind your back is between them and God! And that’s known of your business. 

Focus on you, not them!

No matter what you have been through in life, you can be healed

It doesn’t matter how broken you feel at this moment you can be healed

I don’t care how many people have lost hope in you; you can be healed

If no one has ever told you that you can be fixed, then lean close and repeat after me: I am not too broken to be fixed. In fact, I’m not broken; I’m just hurt and need to be healed!

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Bella~

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  16. Fantastic!!!! I applaud you, beautiful Belladonna ❤ !!!! You are awesome and beyond inspiring to me 🙂 and I needed your words like water and air this past week!!! Was it in the wind, … seriously??? Yesterday – going to write on it and totally thought of you 😉 my better half’s co-worker adjacent straight “cougar’d” him last night!!! Well, kinda all week … well, actually for over a month now! And I heard the whole thing!!!!! I’m not right (LOLOLOL) !!! Hope you have a wonderful weekend and thank you for being perfectly YOU!!! No better way …

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  18. Amen! Thank you for that reminder 💕🤗 Sometimes I am guilty of thinking I am too broken to be fixed. But why give power to that thought when what happened to me was not by any means my fault, nor did I have control over how horribly I was treated. It truly is their own fault and they will have to stand before God one day and face judgment.

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