Have you ever experienced that feeling when it seems like your head is lost in a cloud? That’s the sensation I’ve been grappling with lately.
I’m not entirely sure if that’s the best way to describe how I feel, but it’s the first thing that came to mind. Lately, I’ve been experiencing a mental fog, a state of mind where clarity seems to elude me. This has led to a significant decrease in my appetite to the point where I’m essentially fasting. However, this ‘fast’ is not a deliberate choice, but rather a physical manifestation of the mental fog I’m grappling with.
My energy is the same, but my mind and spirit feel a little freer, unburdened by the usual clutter of thoughts and emotions, like it does during a fast.
I’ve spent the majority of my day trying to make sense of what I’m feeling, and then just as I began typing to explain to y’all, I was able to put it into words. Now everything makes sense.
I feel free!
My Main Message
We can’t become hostages to things that we can’t control. It’s so easy to let external circumstances, like a sudden change in plans or a disappointing outcome, dictate our emotions and thoughts, pulling us into a cycle of anxiety and frustration. Instead, we must recognize that there are aspects of life we can’t change, and learning to accept this can be incredibly liberating.
When we release our grip on those uncontrollable elements, we can redirect our focus inward. Embracing the uncertainty helps us find clarity and can even lead to personal growth. It’s about shifting from a mindset of helplessness to one of empowerment, choosing how we respond rather than letting external factors dictate our feelings. This choice, this power, is what makes us feel in control and confident in our ability to navigate life’s challenges.
Ultimately, finding peace in the chaos requires practice and patience. It’s a journey of understanding that while we may not have control over everything, we do have control over our reactions and how we navigate our experiences. This realization is crucial in maintaining our mental and emotional well-being. It’s a reassurance that with time and effort, we can learn to find peace and stability even in the most chaotic of circumstances.
Conclusion
So while my mind may be slipping out of the fog as I type this, my peace and the desire to let go of what I can’t control have heightened.
How I’m looking after myself this weekend
Focusing on being still and enjoying the end of summer.
How are you looking after yourself?
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


I think I will do the same as you this weekend. The week was busy, I need stillness, so that is what will happen. Have a good weekend, Bella!
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So how was your weekend? I hope other was still and refreshing.
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Yes, thank you, sommerly weather, quiet moments in my den on the terrace, good food …
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Sounds cozy!!!
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Did I mention the dessert wine with a smudge of black currant mead? My own version of a Kir.
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Ohhhhhhh yummmm! That sounds refreshing
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🌺
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Thanks for sharing
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Thank you for your constant support!
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This is a on going struggle for me.
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Isn’t it the strangest feeling? How are you now?
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Getting better day by day. Thank you 🙂
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Love to hear that!!!!
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I agree, we should try to do what’s in our hands. A nice share.
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Thank you KK!!!!
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You’re welcome!
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Excellent post!
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Thank you 😊
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