Listen, dum dum, if I want your opinion, I’ll squeeze your nose, or I’ll willingly FaceTime you so you can tear me apart one pound at a time!
Is it weird for women, mainly black women, to call into this guy’s podcast so he can judge them?
The other day, I was innocently scrolling through FB, enjoying make-up and hair videos, when I stumbled upon this doof who dares his callers to rate themselves higher than a four. Can you believe it? A FOUR! It’s like he’s living in a different century.
Caller #1
I’m 5’4, 34 years old, and what did you ask me for? My dress size? I’m a size 14, and yes, I do have a college degree, and I have excellent credit.
She continues by saying she rates herself an 8 out of 10, and after she says that, she sits in silence as he judges her entire existence. After that long, awkward pause, he says, “Do you want to find someone who has money, or is $50,000-70,000 a year reasonable?”
She responded, ” Well, I would like to find someone who’s making as much as me or more so we can travel and be financially secure.
Without hesitation, he told her, you do not have the look or size that would attract a man with money; Your look will only get you a man that is making average or less than average money.
Caller #2
I’m 5’6, 145 pounds, I wear a size 7/8, and I have my bachelor’s as well as my master’s, and I rate myself a 9.
He chuckled and said, first of all, you are not a size 7/8; you’re much bigger than that, and you must be rating yourself out of 100 because you aren’t a 9 out of 10.
He continues to tell her the same as caller #1.
This nonsense continues one call after the next, and I can’t help but wonder why these women are stooping so low by asking this moron what kind of man they should be looking for. And his only answer is;
- You aren’t good enough
- You’re too fat
- You’re not that good-looking
- You can’t compete with the beautiful women the upper-class men can choose from
- You are a 4 at best
This guy is a shithead! The last thing we need as women is for a scum bucket to define us by a number. We need a little less judgment based on our appearance. Last but definitely not least, we are more than just a number on a scale or a dress size.

We all deserve love, happiness and that one person who makes us feel like the queen we are!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Bella~


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I’m amazed at these women.
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Me too!!!!! I don’t know why they call in. I haven’t heard him say one positive thing too any caller.
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A sadistic bunch of people me thinks
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For sure
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😱
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I can’t believe this is going on!
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Me either, it’s the strangest thing.
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Does this happens? And women rate themselves so low? Don’t they respect themselves?
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Most will rate themselves high but he shoots that number right down. And then basically tells them to lose weight, and go for a guy that they can actually get.
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Oh okay. The guy is mentally playing with them. Women should speak up.
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I think so too!
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This is a whole can of worms…
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It really is!
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I raise it one! Ugg, awful! 💕C
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Ewww… I couldn’t imagine.
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Girl!!!
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And if you see him you will def say ewwww!
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Did someone pay these women to do this? lol. Maybe they’re budding actresses? One could hope.
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If they are they better be getting top dollar! LOL
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Seriously
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Ooooooh! The nerve of that guy!! SMDH!! 🤬🤬 See! It’s people like that, especially men, that women only see themselves as nothing but a number and have the worst self-esteem and self respect for themselves as women! Society is plum sickening!! I would like to give this guy a HUGE piece of my mind! I would love to call him and embarrass him on a live stream podcast and demoralize his character, just like he does to these vulnerable women! He needs a serious reality check and a taste of his own medicine!
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I’m with you!!! I didn’t want to share the scumbags handle because he is already full of himself but you can def google and get to him. He is so cocky and he’s not even attractive. I think he secretly hates women and wants us to hate ourselves as well.
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Amen Sister! I agree 110%! He must be one miserable SOB to degrade women. Not only that but what right does he have tearing other women down when he himself isn’t even attractive! What a loser! 🙄 People like that is what’s wrong with this world! They would rather be part of the problem, rather than the solution.
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So so true!!!!!!! So disgusting
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Omg and people actually call! This horrific! Prime example when someone doesn’t love themselves and has been battered! 🥵
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Cindy Yesssssss, this is so classic and literally kicking women when they are already down. What surprises me is there are so many educated women that allow him to attempt to destroy their self worth. Oh and he talks over them. ughhhhh, I hate that!!
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Totally and I just don’t get it either. I DON’T EITHER!!!
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That’s sad. I think alot of his comments show a lack of value and respect for himself. Sounds like he’s putting on others what he’s internalizing.
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YES!
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I’ve never heard of such a thing! Women call in just to be told how lowly they are! Girl, I can’t even have the GPS on my phone in a male voice because I cannot tolerate any man telling me where to go! LOL 🌺🩷😂
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LOLOLOLOL!!!! This is why I like you!!!!! You have no idea how much I LOVE this comment. I neeeded this laugh!
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LOLOL I’m so glad i made you laugh. My work here is done. 😀 🌺🩷
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LOL!!!
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I agree, he is a shithead, but why would any woman expose herself like that to a total stranger, who got his expertise solely from himself. His only aim is to make feel women bad. Maybe the callers were paid to do so … 😉 😀
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That’s what some people think. But he’s so cocky that it seems so real.
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Yes, but I am just thinking about the fitness person faking to run in front of her camera. Sometimes it does look real.
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LOLOLOL It really does!
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Let me call in !!!!!! LOLOL I’ve got his number (Hahahaha) … Has to be for shock value because I don’t know a woman alive that would be okay with that … EVER!!! I wake up a TEN!!! Along these same goofy lines, what was his by chance (ZERO) !!? Great post as always, Belladonna ❤ … You know how to fire me up !!! 😉 And YOU, goes without saying TENS!!!! Always 🙂
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Awwww thanks girlie!!!! I’ve never seen him rate anyone a 10. He said that number is four super models. HUGE EYE ROLL!!!
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Wonderful post! It’s true we are more than a number of age, size…
Thank’s for share dear Bella.
Nice time!
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AMEN!!!!!
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Thank’s!
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I agree Belladonna! I think this guy is so wrong! And I would not entertain him or even listen to his show! Its crap crap crap! X
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It’s the crappiest thing. I ‘m always in shock when I catch n episode.
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I’m so excited to share that his outdoor dog house would be built without air conditioning and no form of heating in a Canadian winter! Thanks for sharing. Bella
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣love that!!!!
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I’m catching up on your articles before I came in the neighborhood. 👍.
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The dumb side of a channel like that is it attracts the attention of people that 1 either arnt sure of them self or 2 just seeking attention. Both are bad and he only does it because he gets views for such.
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Yes, yes and yes! He thinks she is so attractive and constantly reminds callers that they could never get a man on his level.
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This makes my blood boil! People are not retable, we’re people, period. Hugs, C
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Exactly!!!!!!
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exactly why?…
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Uggghhhh who knows!
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I’m sorry that they wasted their time calling this (for keeping it clean) person, who obviously is so low the only way he thinks he’s better is to tear down others. I think that’s a terrible practice, I would rather build another up and treasure them for who they are.
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And that makes you an amazing person and dream of a friend!
This guy tore down every woman that called in and made them all feel like they were fat and worthless.
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This is exactly what I was looking for.
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How so?
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