When I went to Maui, I said the beach would get what I gave it!
I refuse to put myself in time out because I didn’t lose a certain amount of weight before my trip is a NO GO for me. I have been in the fitness field longer than I haven’t, and I’ve learned that weight will fluctuate. And I am unapologetic about it!
Being comfortable in your skin is a win.
Holding yourself back from having a good time because of weight is a LOSS!
You could have chosen any blog to win, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~
Belladonna’s Flashlight 
You be you! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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I like healthy, fit as opposed to weight loss….there’s no such thing as one size fits all, The first thing I tell clinics when I get asked if running will help them reduce weight..my answer is to throw out the bathroom scale, and perhaps don’t look in the mirror and judge…
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You are spot on Warren!!! Great advice!
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For some reason, the video isn’t playing for me. I’ve attempted to view it on the reader and directly on your site. 🥺
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Same for me.
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Ugggghh sorry guys! I think it’s working now
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Things happen. Will check it out as soon as I can. 😊
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Thank you Michele. It’s just a funny little video with Mariah Carey.
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It was cute. 😊
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That video gave me so many problems 🤨 I think it’s working now.
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Ah! Saw this one on The Gram. Yaaasss!
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Glad it finally played! LOL
This video cracks me up.
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It worked. 👍🏻😁
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Yayyyyy!
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Glad you feel comfortable in your own skin. Great message.💕
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Thank you Grace! Gotta be happy with whatcha got! 😁
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My pleasure. So true 💕
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I can’t see the video, thank’s for share dear Bellla.
Have a wonderful weekend.
Thank’s
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Ughhh sorry! I just fixed it.
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Don’t worry dear! Thank’s!
I will see it later.
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I work on this as well 🙂
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You have a great balance Paula.
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Thank you 💜
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You’re welcome!
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Thank you for this. I know that we become more beautiful to ourselves when we’re comfortable with how we are!
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YES!!!!! For sure🙌🏽💖💖💖
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Thank you for this Bella. I’ve learnt that we become more beautiful to ourselves when we love what we look like!
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Yes so true!
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I totally agree and at my age I don’t care! I put on the suit and I splash away! Life is short, enjoy. Hugs, C
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Same here Cheryl! And the bigger you are the better bigger and better the splash. LOL
Sounds good to me.
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Well written piece, Bella (as always). Something for us all to remember. If one wants to lose weight, on should do so for oneself, not to please the masses. (They won’t be pleased, anyway). Loved it. Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you, they have already made their mind up about you anyway. So be you!
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Girlfriend, good for you! I am so happy to hear this frame of mind that you have embraced. No apologies needed and no guilt felt. 🤜🏼🤛🏼 I know you had the most FANtabulous time there. I didn’t want to leave when my husband and I went for a week for a late honeymoon/vacation there. Honey, you couldn’t tell me I wasn’t the “Cat’s Meow” as my mother used to say! 🤣😜😂 Thanks for sharing sis!
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Kym None of us wanted to snap back to realty!!!!🥹
Girl you’re still the cats meow!!
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LMBO!!! 🤣😝😂 Honey chile, if you don’t want to snap back to reality, you can still dwell in your world of fantasy for as long as you want!!! LOL We all stay there for a while, every now and then, maybe a lot of now and then! LOL 🤣😜😂
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Exactly! LOLOL
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I love this attitude and wish everyone had it!
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That’s so nice! 💖💖💖
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Amen Sister!!! Preach it!!! 💪🏻💪🏻💖
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💖💖💖💖 Thank you Jenny
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