Has anyone ever told you that you were too emotional?
If so, when they told you that, did you stop being emotional, or did you amp it up? If you are anything like most of us, you amped it up. You’re not alone in this.
When you amp it up, you may become such an emotional beast that everyone would rather tune you out than listen to what you have to say.
It’s a journey, not a destination.
Learn how to debate while keeping your emotions in check. This skill can be learned and mastered with practice.
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Learn how to debate while maintaining your composure and keeping a steady breath.
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


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This is something we all need to learn and practice
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We definitely do because we can learn so much with peaceful disagreements.
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Very true my friend
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I need to learn this. My emotions rule me! X
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Please practice this and watch how much better you feel.
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I’ve often been told I’m not emotional enough…
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awww screw that! Keep being exactly the way God made you.
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I do my best 🙂
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Have a great weekend
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This is definitely good to master!
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It’s helped me so much!
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Teaching high school students taught me the value of counting to ten during emotionally charged situations. 🧘🏻♀️ Of course, helpful in other stressful situations, too. 😌 Happy Friday to you, Coach!
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Kudos to teachers! ❤
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Amen!!!!
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Absolutely, yes! ❤ Thank you for your visit!
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I appreciate teachers so much!! I would be counting to ten all day if I had to deal with some of these kiddos. LOL
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haha You’d probably have them drop and give you ten! Pushups of course!
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I really would! LOL
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No doubt! And they would be better for it! 🙌🏻
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Or they might flatten all my tires. LOL
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😱 True! 😟
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That is such a good advice, Bella! I have/had most problems with emotions when I interact with my brothers, old patterns that are/were hard to break. (My older brother died 3 years ago.)
I find it easier with strangers.
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I’m sorry that your brother passed, and you are right it’s easier to keep your cool with strangers. Family knows which buttons to push!!!!
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Hehe, exactly! ❤
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Yes, Emotional Intelligence is all about managing your emotions. And you are right. people who are hysterical, emotional, and have a breakdown every time something happens will be avoided and ignored.
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Dawn you got that right, they will be ignored and looked at a little oddly!
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Sooo true, Bella!
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Breath In, Breathe Out, Repeat, Smile!
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Yes!!!! Controlling your breathing s a must. Thank you Cindy❤️❤️❤️❤️
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It sure is and panting a lot while you’re doing it.. Ha🤣 You’re so welcome my friend!
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LOLOL
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Nope, no one has ever told me that. I grew up in a rough household and just stopped talking at an early age and tried my best to block out the words. I’m (much) older now and I definitely talk more, but not a lot. However, on the plus side, I write like crazy, which has made my life lovely.
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Nope, no one has ever told me that. I grew up in a rough household and just stopped talking at an early age and tried my best to block out the words. I’m (much) older now and I definitely talk more, but still not a lot. However on the plus side I write like crazy, which has made my life lovely.
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Pam I’m so glad you are doing what’s best for you! I enjoy being around chatty people
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So true!! ❤️
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Right!
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Unforgettable!!!
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Thank you for stopping by.
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Yesss… It hurts at the time, but it is ever so funny looking back at it in the future…lol!
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You’re right!! 😁
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Great content!
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