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How To Avoid The Loser Circle

One thing about life is that once you get into the loser circle, it’s hard to get out!

I’m not telling you what I heard; I’m telling you what I know. And I know that once you tell yourself, “This is all I deserve,” then that’s all you get. You have officially sabotaged anything and everything that was meant for you. But there is still time to change. Start by challenging your negative thoughts and replacing them with powerful, positive affirmations. These affirmations, they are not just words; they are tools that shape your reality, empowering you and putting you in control. Over time, you’ll see a shift in your mindset. 

The more positive you become, the quicker you’ll distance yourself from the ‘loser circle ‘. Positivity is key, and those who are trapped in negative thinking may feel uneasy or even resentful when you’re positive. Your positivity acts as a mirror, reflecting their untapped potential and the effort they’re not putting in. 

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Being positive and having the ability to be alone instead of following the noisy crowd. Oh how I love this and love to see it!

Being positive requires effort, control, and dedication. It’s not always a smooth journey, but it’s always rewarding. The more you invest in your positivity, the more you’ll see it transform your life.

The first sign of it paying off is the loser circle getting further and further away from you. Your positivity and determination freak them out and will either cause them to resent you or admire you from afar. The admiration from afar is dangerous, but we’ll get into that in the next post. 

The main focus here is how effective your positivity is, and that positivity will lead you to a place of peace and prosperity! 

But let me warn you, getting away from your loser circle can be lonely at first; however, in due time, you will find peace in solitude. It’s okay to feel lonely in the beginning; it’s part of the process. But remember, you’re not alone in this journey. There are others who have gone through the same and come out stronger on the other side. 

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Belladona~

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22 Replies to “How To Avoid The Loser Circle”

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  4. So true. I think the “looser circle” can be a bit like being stuck in the “friend zone”. Its a place no one really wants to be but we often just fall into it. it can be a daunting move to make stepping out of the looser circle, but emotionally and creatively it makes you feel so much better when you step away from that circle.

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  12. Honestly described perfectly, Belladonna ❤ and you answered a life-long question (“Your positivity acts as a mirror, reflecting their untapped potential and the effort they’re not putting in.”) God smacked ~ 🙂

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