Claim it and open the door to a world of positive changes!
Have you ever embarked on a mission to make a particular day the most extraordinary day of your life?
When you choose to claim a day, a week, a month, or an entire year as your time, you’re not just taking control; you’re empowering yourself with the incredible power of choice to elevate your life to a whole new level.
Change your mindset in order to change your life.
Let’s make a conscious effort to seek the good in things rather than focusing on the bad or flat-out refusing to see the positive in a situation. I know what you’re thinking, “That’s easier said than done.”
However, in all actuality, it is easy to do. You have to choose to live your life as more of a glass-is-half-full kind of person. And you can retrain your brain if you take one day at a time, making the process simple and manageable.
You have to crawl before you walk and walk before you run!
In other words, start by making random individual days the best days of your life, and then take off from there. Once you get used to doing that, up it from one day to a week and so on until you work your way up to having the best year of your life.
But for now, let’s start with making December 4th, 2024, the best day you ever had.
The rules are
- Don’t compare this day to any other day
- Focus on the positive
- Do something nice for someone
- Give someone a compliment
- Say something nice about you
Lastly, share some good news with us today so we can celebrate you!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I want you to know that your choice is valued and appreciated. I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


Very helpful tips Belladonna 🤩
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Thank you so much!
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You’re very welcome
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I’m having a nice morning, and this day is going to rock!
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I love this attitude Carol!!!! Rock out and enjoy your day!
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Great way to start the day, Bella! I’m on it!!! ❣️
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Thank you Cindy, I hope you had a great day.
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This is great advice, and I especially like that you added say something nice about yourself, too. You would cringe if you heard the dialogue in my head sometimes. I want to change that.
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Oh Kymber I get it! I can say some messed up crap to myself at times.
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Thing is, I would never say those same things to another person, so why is it okay to say them to myself? As the Middle Little would say, “Not nice!” 😀
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I agree with middle little! LOL
I don’t know why we do that but we are def our own toughest critic.
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That’s so true! I’ve taken to listening to The Littles a lot. Sometimes what say is profound. 😀
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They are truth tellers and say so much that we as adults should listen to.
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Right on, Bella! 100% right!
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Great rules of thumb Queen B. Thanks so much for the encouragement ladybug!!! 👍🏼😍💪🏼
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Thank you so much Kym!
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You’re so very welcome my dear Queen B! 😊💖🤗
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there are so many days that at the end of it your head hits the pillow satisfied….but to plan for that?…a satisfying day, a great day is a busy day…the past year, worked 3 races the same day, and took part in two of them..connected to a ton of friends at each….I thinking, 66 is coming in 28 days, can I make 66 the best year ever, and do I begin that, now?…
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Warren you are such an inspiration!!!! Yes start now and make it a great one.
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Energizing share, Coach. Thank you! Your comment, “seek the good in things rather than focusing on the bad” reminded me of a term we use in writing workshops: reframing. 👍🏻
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Thank you Michele! Isn’t it so great how good you feel when you start seeking light and ignoring dark spaces?
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Absolutely, yes! It really helps. 🙏🏻
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I want a day like Ferris Beuller!
JK… great post, Bella… expect the best 😎❤️
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LOLOLOL Me too! How did he do that in one day?!
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Nice advice! Such special Days energise us. Morning walk for me is a good beginning of the day.
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Thank you KK! They sure do.
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You’re welcome!
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That’s good advice, Bella! I find the last one hardest. As you say, sometimes (or often) we are own worst critics. 🙂
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We sure are!!!
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Such great advice, Bella! Thanks for sharing! 🤗
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Love this. Great advice, beautiful. 🌹
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Thank you girlie!
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You’re welcome.
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Inspiring ♥️
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Thank you!
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