We have hit the trail running!
Well, maybe some of us are walking, or hell, perhaps you are crawling. But you know what? It doesn’t matter how you get to the finish line; just get there.
We have 31 days to make magic happen, but ya got to stick to the goals you committed to. NO EXCUSES
One of the things that has always been difficult for me to listen to is a bunch of complaining. Most of the problems we have, we can fix them. There are illnesses or deaths of loved ones that we can’t control, but for the things that we can change or control, then we should.
Making excuses will only hold you back and prevent you from entering 2024 as your best self.
Repeat After Me: Over the next 31 days, I will not make excuses; I will get shit done. Even on my bad days, I will get shit done.
Look After Yourself Friday
Today is December 1st and it’s FRIDAY! Today, we can choose how we are going to look after ourselves and kick off December on a great note.
How lucky are we?
So, today, I choose to look after myself by reading and writing A LOT. I’ll take a break and bake chocolate chip cookies and then end my note with a cheesy Christmas movie (the cheesier, the better).
I would love to know what y’all are doing to look after yourself today and/or this weekend.
Whatever you plan on doing, make sure you are doing something for yourself and constantly check on your mental health. The holiday season can be a lot on everyone, so making sure you are balanced and equipped to handle all that it entails will make you better off.
Wishing all my beautiful blogging family a HAPPY FRIDAY. Stay warm and cozy!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


Reading Belladonna’s blog post, eating popcorn drinking beer, walking for at least 35 minutes, cleaning house (keeps me grounded), eating gummies, watching funny movies with my wife.
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Art how did I make this amazing list of yours?! All these things are right up my alley. I’m looking for a good movie now.
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we watched the new Eddie Murphy christmas movie last night it was so good. And we watch Family Switch another funny christmas movie..
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Art I’m glad you said something about that movie, I was wondering if it was good or not. I’ll check it out.
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“There are illnesses or deaths of loved ones that we can’t control, but for the things that we can change or control, then we should.” I couldn’t agree more. I am having a movie marathon/ pizza night.💕
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Thank you so much!!!! Grace that sounds like so much fun. I love that and I hope you are having a cozy and great time.
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My pleasure. Thank you. Likewise.💕💕💕
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Excuses will only lead to self-defeat. Never give up, and never surrender.
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AMEN!!!!!!
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Guuurrrrllllll…
“We have hit the trail running! Well, maybe some of us are walking, or hell, perhaps you are crawling.” 🏃🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🚶🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🧎🏻♀️
Lord Queen B, I love your energy and motivation. But honey, it’s Friday night here, so it’s popcorn, a crazy movie and then checking out my man Guy Fieri’s latest episode on Food Network! And THAT sistah, is how I am looking after myself for today, the weekend, and the rest of next week! 😂😜🤣 LOL Love ya! Hugs and smooches! 🥰💖😘
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This sounds like my kind of weekend! Guy Fieri is good and his loud mouth gives me energy, he enjoys all his food!
Kym you are definitely looking after yourself in the best way. Enjoy your weekend hot mama!
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Girlfriend I hope your weekend was FAB! I did a lot of chilling out and a little cleaning up. But I did catch up on some basketball games that my alma mater was playing… my Lady Gamecocks and they tore it up! 🏀🏀🏀 They are doing better than the guys! Not surprising though! Smooches! 😘
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Oh Gamecocks huh!? One of my son’s good friend plays football there. Great school.
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When I was there we had our own zip code. And that was in 1977! 😱 Insane, but they had a lot of perks and a lot of alumni money! 💲💲💲 Must be nice! 😊
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Yes they have a shit load of cash and support.
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Guurrrrllllllll…. 😵💲😱
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Right!
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watching an old peter gabrial concert on youtube…today was just doing..instead of thinking about doing…..finishing up the 1st season of GoT tonight, paying more attention…and day 1 of 31 not watching any 24 hour news channel, and staying away from newspapers…am guessing that’ll help the mental health….oh yeah, and organizing a lot of runs this month….
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Staying away form news channels is so helpful for protecting your mental health. I have stayed away for a couple of days and I don’t feel stressed out.
good for you for organizing runs!!!! And watching GOT, know I think I need to put that on the tube.
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I’m making a large pot of yellow split peas vegetable soup and will spend the evening watching cheesy Hallmark Christmas movies. Enjoy your chocolate chip cookies 😀
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Oh wow Rosaliene that sounds sooooooo good! I’ll be right over for a nice big bowl. I know you are relaxing and having a great time. Chocolate chip cookies and movie watching is a success!
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Yay!
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After a hectic week, battling with a bad cough, I plan to take it slow.
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Please do! I hope you are feeling better!
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Getting better slowly. Thanks ☺️
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Good! Rest up my friend and watch some good movies.
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Thanks. It’s much better today.
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Good!
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🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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“Over the next 31 days, I will not make excuses; I will get shit done. Even on my bad days, I will get shit done.”
Yess!!! Love this! Complainers irritate me too. Here’s to a December of getting shit done. Whatever that shit is. 🙌🏾😁
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LOLOL Yes all shit is good shit just get it done. Cheers to a productive month.
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Late to the party again! LOLOLOL I think a bubble bath is calling my name today.
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Never late! Party starts when you get her girl! That sounds like a good plan, I’m looking forward to doing the same in just a bit.
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I’m going to meet my old colleague at his house.
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That sounds like fun! I hope y’all have lots of laughs and good conversation.
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Yes, childhood fun too. You’re welcome!
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Agree one hundred percent. Thank you for reminder and have a wonderful day, Belladonna.
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You to my friend! Have a great weekend.
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Well, someone has to do it right and we best since who else will. I took a bath with my g.baby in the big tub yesterday and it was soooo fun. hugs and love 🤗💕
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Awwww how sweet! Such a blessing.
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so fun.. back to the womb she went.. 😹
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Self-care is so vital and have a great December!
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Sure is! You too Pooja
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I’m late to the party 😉 But yesterday, I took a 9K+ step walk, while listening to a book I had put aside for months. I worked from home – something I rarely get the chance to do (but will do more); I had my son’s leftover carbonara pasta (so. damn. good) and I had my date night. Today, I gave myself a swift kick in the behind and went for a 22-minute run/walk in the west snow. I stacked some wood in my garage in preparation of the cold days coming mid-week, I made a delicious veggie soup and, to be honest, I did SFA (Sweet Fuck All) the rest of the day. Now? Imma watch some sappy Christmas movie to cap off the day!!
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Well damn Dale you were on the go!!!! Good food and movement, life doesn’t get better than that.
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I was! Couldn’t convince myself yesterday until last night – walked in a fairy land of snow for about 30 minutes last night. It was gorgeous. And I figured between that and shovelling snow twice – it would suffice as a workout! I shovelled again this morning and will when I get home… oh joy, oh bliss…
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Oh wow! I haven’t shoveled in years and I must admit I do miss the snow. If we’re lucky we will see a little in February.
And yes that is beyond a great workout!
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I do love winter… for about a month. And since it started so early, I dunno, man… 😉
It is!! I know I’m feeling it!
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I love it before and on christmas and then after that it can go straight to hell! LOL
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Haha! I’ll put up with it until January 31. After that? Get out!
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Right!!!!! LOL
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I have to say that because up here? Winter lasts for fucking ever…
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Oh wow!!!!!! I can’t even imagine.
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December to March… ugh.
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woof!!!!
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🤣😂
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LMAO!
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As instructed, I repeated it after you, not once but twice. Now I just need to abide by it, I just hope I can.
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You can do it Keith!!!!
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