Have you ever had a friend that heard you said something negative about them, and they instantly believed the gossip?
Not only did they believe the gossip, but they wanted to avoid hearing your side of the story. So they would instead dump you and move on than hear the truth.
Well, guess what? They were looking for any reason to drop you, so don’t sweat it. Anyone that values their friendship with you will want to get to the bottom of any gossip and resolve the problem. They will see you as someone that’s right fighting for.
Here’s a RED FLAG
When you ask who told them this bullshit, they will say, “I promised I wouldn’t tell,” or “It doesn’t matter who told me; the point is you’re talking about me, and that’s all that matters.”
BIGGEST RED FLAG
If you receive a text telling you they no longer want a friendship with you because of gossip, they heard about you. Well, guess what, buddy? If they don’t have the guts to call you and tell you this mess, then they are not interested in going back and forth with you.
They were looking for the first chance to cut you out. LETEMGO!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~
Belladonna’s Flashlight 
Then all of them should fuck off
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Honey really love this post you posted here🙏👍🔥🔥🔥
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when you’re right, you’re right….but yeah, it’s still, I guess the natural reaction is to want to make it right, patch things up….but sometimes, like the Gambler said, you;ve gotta know when to walk away…
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The more I read your posts, the more I am getting stronger each day. Lots of love and hugs to you, dear Bella. ❤❤😊😊
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Wnderful and emwering! Thank’s fr share, Belladna.
Nice day!
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Been there and have dropped their friendship
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Well reasoned. Good riddance to bad rubbish, as they say.
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I would feel the same. They should want to do the back-and-forth. 💙 I feel you, having been surprised a few times by such things.
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It drives me crazy when someone I know automatically assumes something out of character for who I am. It seems to happen more than I would have thought and I will never understand it. What happened to benefit of the doubt based on what you know about them? I feel your aggravation, it’s not a fun thing to deal with.
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Lovely little reminder! People with the red flags you mentioned are not people worth knowing or having in one’s life.
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