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One Line Is All I GOT ~Part2~

(Part one can be found here One Line Is All I GOT)

As I hung up the phone, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of relief wash over me. I know that when I talk to her, I often end up feeling drained and disoriented, questioning my whole life. But this time, I was able to end the conversation and regain my peace. 

At this point, I’ve come to a profound realization. She thrives on causing confusion by spreading lies and sowing division. But how desperate must one be to make this a pattern? It’s a stark recognition of toxic behavior that underscores the importance of self-awareness and personal growth. 

It’s moments like these when I truly cherish the support and understanding of my loved ones. Their validation of my feelings and experiences wraps me in a warm blanket of comfort and reassurance, reminding me of the invaluable role they play in my life.

Long story short

I was minding my own business, folding laundry, and listening to Police Body Cam on YouTube (my favorite pastime, a channel that documents real-life police encounters). And then, all of a sudden, my phone rings. I hesitate to go over and look to see who’s calling, but I give in to suspension, and there her name is, Lighting up my screen.

I grunted a little—okay, a lot. After a long sigh, I picked up the phone, and right away, she played the victim, accusing me of blocking her calls because she wasn’t able to get through to me. 

Unfortunately, I know her well, so I know she told others this lie before she brought the alleged blocking up to me. WHICH THE BLOCKING IS FALSE. The fact of the matter is, she hasn’t called, and there aren’t any missed calls from her, but I know she thinks her lies will give her sympathy from others.

After that was settled, she moved on to making allegations against others, which, of course, left her the victim again. At this point, I had to stop the madness, and I told her to “STOP; not everything is about you and you have to stop making accusations when you know they are not wrapped in facts”.

Her constant negativity and lies have been a sore spot for a very long time, and some days, I feel the urge to respond in a less-than-ideal way. 

Pow, Pow in the chin!

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Belladonna~

28 Replies to “One Line Is All I GOT ~Part2~”

  3. People like that are leeches, they feed on our good energy. Is that somebody you can avoid altogether?

    I had some cases like that at my last work place. People told me what other people said about me or others. So I stirred up a wasps nest by telling the victims what the snakes had said resp. asking the others if they had said that about me. Luckily they couldn’t harm me, but the other colleagues were warned about the snakes. They played it all down as misunderstandings, but we all knew better.

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      1. I simply don’t like people like that getting away with everything, manipulating their way through life and pitching people up against each other. I was enormously lucky with the colleagues in my own group.
        Setting the records straight creates some enimies, of course, but even people who don’t like you anymore know that they can trust and rely on you. That was another funny experience.

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  4. I hate hearing stuff, awful stuff that is/was toxic, and trying to figure out where that thing came from…and then you do figure it out. can’t do a thing, ignore and just move on…life’s too short

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  12. Fighting negativity, pow, the lies dripping off her sweet sweat like water. The sore spot, the pow to the thin chin. The TKO, whoa, negatively and the Don, the Bella of the dawn, and the real-life encounter, lies less than ideal. 😊✌🏾🥊

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