I was through after I heard this one line!
After hearing it, I calmly ended the call, knowing that I had never placed any expectations on her, not even for her love. She has been a source of disappointment, but also a valuable lesson in what not to become.
So when I heard her say, “Call me if you start to feel any worse”! I knew where we stood and what I meant to her.
And in that moment, I found acceptance. I was okay with the reality of our relationship.
My heart is no longer burdened with hate, for God has blessed me with so much. I’m forever grateful!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


hugs bella! ❤ ❤
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Thank you Carol anne, hugs to you!
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You have the strength and beauty to keep shining Bella! 🌸
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Thank you, I needed that!
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Blessings Bella 🌸
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This is something a doctor would say
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Oh wow, how right you are!
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👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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Wow, what a thing to say. Your experiences with that person from before, do not indicate that she maybe just formulated that in a clumsy way.
Sometimes we have to let go, you know that, and don’t take that behaviour on us as our own fault. Some people just are certain body openings.
Good for you that you didn’t let her take your shine away from you! ❤
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Thank you
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It took years to get over this unwanted feeling but I am still standing and grateful 😍
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It always helps to know where you stand so you can move on!! 👏💗
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Cindy I couldn’t agree with you more!
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Sometimes you have to accept things as they are and move on, even if you don’t want to!
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Vanya, YES YES YES, I totally agree
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If we need to accept it´s better to smile too…
Thank’s for share dear Bella have Happy Holidays!
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Yes to that Beautidul!
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Brava, Belladonna! Wishing you a bright and happy holiday season 💖✨️
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I hope you are enjoying your holidays!
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Season’s greetings, Belladonna!
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Happy Holidays!
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Sometimes some people let you down. But it’s better that we realise where we stand so that we can do the course correction and move on. Kudos to you for handling the situation with grace.
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Thank you!!!! It hits different when it’s someone that should have your back.
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Very true. It’s the worst betrayal
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It really is!
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Nice post 🌅🌅
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Thanks 😊
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Belladonna ❤ … At first, I saw Nene and immediately perked up :-), then realized; you, my friend, got minimized by someone who was supposed to do otherwise, which equals a huge letdown! It’s so easy for ppl to say move on, but for some (Taurus) it’s not an option (lol)! So, I change my stance and want you/me/anyone who experiences this to state in that moment, “Are you a friend to me?” Be direct and find out why this sudden shift or what it was in you that needed her? My answer = I NEED YOU, that’s who !!!!! LOL ❤ ya ~ Always
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Girl you are just what I need on my friend list!!! Way to often people will try to suck the life out of you and make you feel the way they do about themselves. We can never let them win.
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Happy new year, may its sway be abundant, its way be God’s grace!
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Happy New Year!
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Hugs !! You dont deserve that. Having a good support system is everything. I was recently diagnosed with bipolar and I learned that I chose well with my circle. People who don’t love you at your hardest of times, don’t deserve your greatest times.
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When we find out the other people don’t care as much, it hurts. ((hugs)) But good that you can gracefully let her go, Belladonna!
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Thank you Susi! It’s eye opening and overtime it’s easy to overcome ❤️
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You’re welcome, dear! I agree! ❤
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