Love stinks Part 1
We lost touch for five years because I moved to Florida after college.
However, on one crazy day, I was going to the DMV because I had moved back to my college town for a brief spell and needed my license changed.
There She Was
I was headed out the door with my head facing down, checking out my new picture and ensuring all the info was correct. Then suddenly, I heard a familiar voice call out my name. When I looked up there, she was with two kids. Her oldest was five, almost six, and the new baby was one year old.
She looked tired and had aged quite a bit. But when she saw me, she lit up and gave me the biggest, warmest hug. I felt the love and anxiousness pouring through her. I knew she needed to give me an ear full, and I was eager to listen in hopes that she would provide a positive update.
The Update
She came home from work to the apartment that she provided for them. And there he was, sleeping at 5 in the evening in a bed full of urine. She screamed and yelled his name while frantically trying to rip off the bedding. He leaped out of bed and wrapped his hands around her neck.
She fell to the ground, gasping for her breath.
He jumped on top of her with his urine-soaked boxer shorts and beat her until she was close to passing out. She was saved by the footsteps and the manic crying of her daughter.
He’s gone
She lay on the ground with her daughter in her arms; her other baby was two months old and still in his car seat. She didn’t have a chance to get him out when she arrived home from work. The smell of urine took over the apartment, and the beating started instantly.
When she was able to stand, she called her parents and begged for them to come to get her. When they arrived, they couldn’t believe that she was able to get up from the ground and call them.
She promised her parents that if they helped her, this would be the last time he would be able to touch her. Her parents said this is it; we will take the kids and detach ourselves from you.
The kids deserve better!
He tried to come back but failed.
Pee pants made several attempts to force her to return to him, but she stuck to her promise.
The day we reconnected, she was getting her new license and claiming her life.
The last tie we spoke, she was living in Florida with her husband and celebrating the birth of her fourth child. Her cheerful and light-hearted voice was what I remembered before pee pants charged into her life. She was happy, looking forward to their new baby and moving into a bigger home to accommodate their growing family.
Of course, I asked her about pee pants, and boy, did we have a good laugh!
The Stench was gone, and real LOVE showed up.
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~
After writing this three-parter, I contacted my friend and sent the three-parter to her, and she loved it. We are meeting up in September, and I will introduce you all to this hero of a woman. The one who made it out!


I enjoyed reading this post. Sometimes you have to move on to protect yourself.
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Thank you! Yes cut ties and start fresh. Some things aren’t meant to be saved.
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So glad she left. This is the ending I really wanted to hear for this story. Thanks for sharing.💕
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I’m so glad that you read all three parts 💖💖💖🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Yes, I’m so happy she left him. I never thought she would!
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Im glad I read it too. Great share.💕
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Thank God what I thought was going to happen didn’t. Pee Pants! 🤣😅😝😁😂 Girlfriend, you are a riot! Maybe he is locked up somewhere where he can’t hurt anyone like that anymore. Pee Pants or is it PEA Pants??? 👖😜🩳 LMAO
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m sure he was pea pants!!! Little punk!!!
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Girl, you are tooooo funny! I love ya girlfriend. 😆🤣😲😅😂
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LOLOL! Love you!
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I’m glad she got out, she deserved better
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Me too!!! She made my day when she loved to Florida and started her new life. She is such a beautiful person and loves to smile!
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I’m glad she found the strength to leave💗
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Me too!!!!!! I was shocked but I knew she had it in her to leave. She was always such a driven person.
Thank you so much for reading.
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♥️♥️
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So thankful she finally got away.
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Me too Jeff! Thank you so much for reading. I appreciate you!
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I’m so happy she finally left him and had a happy ending!
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ME too girl!!!! Thank you so much for reading all 3 parts!!!!!
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Really loved the story so I was happy to read all three parts! So realistic and I love happy endings!
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🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😍 Thank you Puja and unfortunately it is a real story 😩 I wish it wasn’t!!!
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Omg that’s so sad but I’m so glad she was able to leave him.
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Me too!!! So glad that she had the support she needed. Because so few have that unconditional love that they can run too.
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So true. A lot of times abusers go out of their way to make their victims isolated.
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Sure do!! And he tried just that.
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Yeah they love isolating their victims. Either way, I wish her the best in life and him the absolute worst!
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😂😂😂SAME!!!!!!
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Best reply EVER! Love your spirit girl! I knew I liked you a bunch!!! 💖😍🙌🏽😍
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Lol thanks!! Glad we both feel the same way about the situation 😅💕
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🤣🤣🤣
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💜🖤💙 I’m so glad she left his stank ass! Thank goodness!
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I never thought she would!!! His raggedy self out her through the ringer.
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More power to her for leaving and remaking a life for herself. Happy story. 👏🏽
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She is such a great person and her kid are amazing!
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oh wow a crazy disastrous story she turned around in the end. Bravo and can’t wait to meet her💓💓
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She is such a beautiful person and still filled with sos much laughter and joy.
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That’s sooooo wonderful!!!🩷
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Wow, part three had a happy ending, Thank God, she got out.
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I was so scared for her but there wasn’t anything I or her family could say to her. She had to hit rock bottom and know that wee would still be there to lift here up.
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Wow! I’m biting mi nails waiting for the next…
Thank’s for share dear Bella.
Have a wonderful weekend!
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Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!
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Pee U … her man, but she took a stand, and found a real man. A husband, that thing called, “LOVE,” true! Every heart needs a friend, to ring the Bell, like Don! Nice share!
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You know you have a way with words!!! Well said Warren.
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😊🙏🏽
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I’m so sorry you both had to endure a demon and thank you Belladonna ❤ for being a real friend / sister and sharing this heroic and brave piece! Love always !!!!
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Thank you so much for readnig!! My friend is doing so well with her new life.
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Always a pleasure,dear Bella!
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I am so glad that she and her children made it out! How do people get like pee pants? He must have been sick in his head. On the other hand, he must have been able to be charming and show (or fake) feelings in order for a sweet woman like your friend to fall in love with him.
Congratultions to her. I wish her all the best with her new husband and the growing family.
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I usually feel sorry for people because you don ‘t know what they went through in life. BUT I draw that line at mentally and physically abusing someone. Just a jerk!!!
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I don’t really feel sorry for him, I was just wondering. Even if he had a bad childhood, it wouldn’t excuse the way he treated your friend. Many people have hard childhoods but turn out fine because they decide to do so.
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I completely agree!
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Thanks for sharing this idea Anita
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I’m glad she got away…
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A good decision to leave him. I love its happy ending.
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Yes she has a very happy ending to this nightmare.
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I liked it. Thank you!
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