Have you ever had a friend that heard you said something negative about them, and they instantly believed the gossip?
Not only did they believe the gossip, but they wanted to avoid hearing your side of the story. So they would instead dump you and move on than hear the truth.
Well, guess what? They were looking for any reason to drop you, so don’t sweat it. Anyone that values their friendship with you will want to get to the bottom of any gossip and resolve the problem. They will see you as someone that’s right fighting for.
Here’s a RED FLAG
When you ask who told them this bullshit, they will say, “I promised I wouldn’t tell,” or “It doesn’t matter who told me; the point is you’re talking about me, and that’s all that matters.”
BIGGEST RED FLAG
If you receive a text telling you they no longer want a friendship with you because of gossip, they heard about you. Well, guess what, buddy? If they don’t have the guts to call you and tell you this mess, then they are not interested in going back and forth with you.
They were looking for the first chance to cut you out. LETEMGO!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~
Belladonna’s Flashlight 
Then all of them should fuck off
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Love it!!!!! I agree😁
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Honey really love this post you posted here🙏👍🔥🔥🔥
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Thank you 😊😊😊
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when you’re right, you’re right….but yeah, it’s still, I guess the natural reaction is to want to make it right, patch things up….but sometimes, like the Gambler said, you;ve gotta know when to walk away…
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Exactly and know when to run!!!!
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The more I read your posts, the more I am getting stronger each day. Lots of love and hugs to you, dear Bella. ❤❤😊😊
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That’s AWESOME!!!!!! I love to hear that Aparna 😍😍😍💪🏽💪🏽
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Wnderful and emwering! Thank’s fr share, Belladna.
Nice day!
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🤍🤍🤍 I hope you are having a great weekend 🙌🏽🤍
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Been there and have dropped their friendship
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Follow my blog for interesting master piece
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I’ll definitely take a look🤍
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Same!!! Good job Sadje🙌🏽
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Please follow back
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Yes I will check your blog out
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Well reasoned. Good riddance to bad rubbish, as they say.
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Exactly!!! Thank you Ally
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I would feel the same. They should want to do the back-and-forth. 💙 I feel you, having been surprised a few times by such things.
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It catches off guard! But we are better off.
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It drives me crazy when someone I know automatically assumes something out of character for who I am. It seems to happen more than I would have thought and I will never understand it. What happened to benefit of the doubt based on what you know about them? I feel your aggravation, it’s not a fun thing to deal with.
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You nailed it!!! If you truly know your friend you would know their character. However I believe they were looking for any reason to move on. Some folks can’t stand that you’re doing better than them in life and turn pure evil!!!
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Lovely little reminder! People with the red flags you mentioned are not people worth knowing or having in one’s life.
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Layla you said that!!! Amen girl!!
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It hurts even more when it’s family… ;(
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YESSSSSSS!!!!! That’s the worst and really takes you back for a long while
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Thank you for sharing. They were never really your friends.
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Thank you Molly and you are right on! More like opportunist.
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Honey chile, I never heard of someone texting you, although I did get a crazy email with a similar message years ago. You don’t have to drop me because it’s already been done. 🤜🏼🤛🏼
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You are my TWIN!!!!!!! It’s been done long before your sorry self text that message. See ya never 🤣🤣
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LMAO, Belladonna, we are soooooo connected. I get it!!! 😂😜🤣
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For sure 🤣
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This happened with a friend group about fifteen years ago. It was ugly and I still don’t understand what happened and why people get involved in things they know nothing about
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I am so thankful that I don’t understand it because that’s no way to live. Some folks are so hateful and miserable
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