Two weeks ago, I wrote Is this what JEALOUSY feels like . Please read that post so that this post will make sense.
Okay, did you read it? Great, welcome back!
I know I’m not the only one who’s had that dreadful jealous feeling. If you can relate, I would love to hear about it. As I see it, we are only human, and sometimes we can’t control or make sense of our feelings.
When my friend told me she was pregnant, the first thing I felt was sadness. As I stated in my previous post, I was happy for her, but I couldn’t help but think that my last kid was just that… my last kid. Unknowingly she reminded me of the fact that part of my life was over. I love being a mom and caring for my kiddos, so it stings a little now that they’re growing up.
Now that a few years have passed since this day occurred, I have a different mindset about the whole baby thing. However, that day I was already in a slump and wasn’t feeling quite like me. What can I say? Life was lifing and had me down in the dumps, so I think any good news would have had me second-guessing myself and my life.
Every day I make it a priority to compare myself to myself, but I do fall short of that when I put too much pressure on staying on track to meet my goals. I always have my years mapped out, and I want to achieve specific things when I approach a new age.
Throw away the pressure, and the jealousy will go
Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves? I have a terrible habit of saying
- when I’m 25, I should have this
- when I’m 30, I should be here in life
- when I’m 35, I need to have achieved this
- when I’m 40, I will be doing this
- when I’m 46, all my wildest dreams will come true!
NO MORE of that! I will live each day with joy and do my best. I’m not pressuring myself to reach specific goals and then come down hard on myself when I fall short. Living like this has helped me be better and enjoy everyone’s news.
Jealousy has died so that peace can live!
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