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Winners and Losers ~Part 3~

Thank you for finding your way back to part 3 of “Winners and Losers.” If you haven’t read part 1 or part 2, you can find them on the links below.

~Part 1~ Winners and Losers ~Part 1~

~Part 2~ Winners and Losers ~Part 2~

Typically, those labeled as ‘Losers’ aren’t inherently seeking to be that way; instead, specific negative attributes have taken root in their lives. So the real question isn’t about fixed labels of ‘winner’ or ‘loser’ but about the journey of transformation. 

Therefore, let’s dive deeper into learning: How does someone who currently sees themselves as a ‘loser’ embark on a fascinating journey of self-discovery and become a ‘winner ‘?

How a Loser Can Become a Winner-The Journey Continues

The first thing you need to ask yourself is: Is it possible for a loser to become a winner?

The answer is ABSOLUTELY!

Here’s how.

SHIFT is the keyword that you have to adopt if you want to be a winner. 

  1. Shift your mindset: How you feel about yourself at this current time doesn’t define you or your potential.
  2. Shift to new habits: Be firm about what goal you want to achieve and set achievable, realistic deadlines. Track your progress daily and set a specific time to do this. Measuring yourself at the same point each day will push you to work harder.
  3. Shift to being around positivity: Who you surround yourself with matters. Seeking friends who motivate you to be better will foster growth and resilience.
  4. Shift to expecting yourself to WIN: Visualize your goals as already achieved and create affirmations that reinforce that belief. This will help you overcome self-doubt and build the confidence necessary to pursue your aspirations. 

Refer to yourself as a winner and refuse to include your shortcomings, for they are in the past. Today is a new day, and we have to embrace it with all we have. 

Being a loser yesterday has nothing to do with today! Embrace this day as if it’s your final day to leave a positive mark on this earth.

Forward March, my winners! ~Part 4 Loading~

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Belladonna~

36 Replies to “Winners and Losers ~Part 3~”

  1. I like how you used the keyword “shift” to illustrate your point. It’s both creative, and it helps me remember. I also liked how you said our shortcomings are in the past. Why do we dwell on them? We shouldn’t.

    Really loved this post!

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  3. Yaaasss to this! Thank you for this post, Bella!

    “Being a loser yesterday has nothing to do with today! Embrace this day as if it’s your final day to leave a positive mark on this earth.”

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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