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What would you do? ~Love or Opportunist~

News you can’t use, but it’s worth gossiping about.

Dreya Michele is a 39-year-old mother of two, a 21-year-old and a seven-year-old. The oldest son’s father is not known to the public, but the seven-year-old’s father is an ex-NFL player.

Dreya is known for being a part of the Basketball Wives cast and a social media influencer. She may do other things, but who cares? The point of this post is to talk about her current relationship and see what you think about it.

Dreyaa, the 39-year-old mother of two, is currently dating Jalen Green, a 22-year-old shooting guard for the Houston Rockets. Jalen signed a four-year, 40.8 million-dollar contract. His next contract will be substantially more significant, and Dreya is ready for the big bucks.

While she was a part of the Basketball Wives cast, she was known as the gold digger and allegedly has a rather extensive list of men she has pursued. 

According to the men her age, they are privy to her gold-digger ways and aren’t interested in entertaining her. So, the word is she had to go for a younger, naive guy.

It isn’t a secret that youngsters in their 20s like to party and have a good time. And if you’re a wealthy 20-year-old, you have access to partying with more women than a broke 20-something. Unfortunately, some people are looking for a better lifestyle that they know they can’t achieve on their own.

So what do they do?

 Well, in this case, young NFL and NBA players are targets for women who are looking for a glamorous lifestyle. So the vultures attack with all their might.

THE BIG QUESTION

If you were Jalen’s parents, what would you say to him about women looking for a wealthy young star? And how would you feel about your 22-year-old son being with a 39-year-old who has had many, many, many hookups with NFL and NBA players?

I’ll follow up with Tommoor with my thoughts!

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Belladonna~

35 Replies to “What would you do? ~Love or Opportunist~”

  3. This right here is something I do NOT have to worry about:

    “If you were Jalen’s parents, what would you say to him about women looking for a wealthy young star? And how would you feel about your 22-year-old son being with a 39-year-old who has had many, many, many hookups with NFL and NBA players?”

    And I’m glad. But I’m of the mind-set that they’re grown. My son would have to experience dating her and glean what he can from it on his own cuz he’s going to do it anyway. Life is meant to be experienced, but I’d be mad as hell cuz I know exactly what she’s doing.

    I’m thankful I don’t have to really take this on. I can’t imagine what parents go through. 🥺🥺🥺

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      1. 😂😆🤣 He’ll find out sooner than later. I hate that for him, but life is like that sometimes. 🥺🥺🥺

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  4. Your story makes me think of that one song with the line, “I ain’t sayin’ she’s a gold digger” lol. But I’m the mother of three (broke) young men, so I don’t have that problem either. However, I feel like Tre does. Let em figure it out for themselves. Hopefully, he will learn from the experience and won’t make the same mistake twice!

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    1. Definitely a gold digger! O agree somethings we have to figure out on our own. But this is going to be an expensive lesson and looking at her past this kid will be dealing with a headache. 🙄

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  5. i don’t think I could keep my mouth shut. The problem is that more you tell a kid not to do something, the more he’ll want to go his own way.

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  6. Personally, I would let him know I support him either way but that there is a big possibility that he is simply being used. I would try my best to get him to make better choices but at the end of the day it’s his life and as an adult he makes his own decisions. Sometimes they need to make bad choices to learn.

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  7. Hard to tell a 22-year-old what to do or even get them to listen to reason. There will always be these vultures and sadly some people have to learn the hard way. Ugh.. What a wretched woman.

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    1. Why can’t we all trust our parents advice!!! This situation would have been avoided if he had listened to someone. Because I guarantee he was told at one point to stay clear if her and others like her.

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      1. If I was his mother and as tactful … I would sit them both down (In Public) so they could address this elephant in the room (me)!! Eyeball to eyeball she’d have to answer my questions and they’d be hard!! I’m a compassionate person and would empathize, but sharking a young man’s future is as criminal as identity theft, stealing, etc. 

        Belladonna ❤ … You have an incredible knack for getting my wheels turning (lol) !! Thank you for your thoughtful and thought-provoking blog !! Sadly, the only good outcome here is Splitsville.

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  10. I agree with many of the comments here, Belladonna. Kids do need to make their own mistakes, it’s true, but on the other hand, this situation is worse in many ways than a little mistake.

    He still has his whole future ahead of him and he’s significantly behind where she is in life and the experience she’s already gained.

    So, here’s the thing… Once, one of my children was dating someone that The Mister and I were both concerned about for several reasons. But any time we tried to broker a conversation about this, said child would shut down. They didn’t want to hear it because they were in the moment.

    We finally backed off and decided, they’d have to make their own decisions and if we have to help pick up pieces after a nasty situation, we would be there to do that.

    However, my child (‘er young person) was not wealthy or a gold digger. We backed off so our child would still open up to us about their life and what was happening.

    If my child was this young man you mentioned, he needs to understand that if he gets this woman pregnant, he’s tied to her for life. She will always be trying to get something from him. Worse yet, if he refuses to give her something she wants, will she withhold his child from him? There are another dozen or so things I can imagine happening because she sounds like a piece of work.

    He cannot trust her. I think some carefully thought out questions need to be answered by this young man. And if I was his parent, that’s how I would approach it.

    I see too much heartache being possible here.

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    1. Kymber spoken like a great momma bear!!! You said everything I was thinking.
      He has so much to learn and unfortunately here she is ready to snatch up his youth for security.
      I just want to shake him and other athletes and tell them to stop thinking with your you know what and think about your future!!!!!!

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  11. let’s just put it this way. Somebody’s ass is getting whooped and it’s gonna be hers because she knows better. He’s out in this world, Fresh and New even though I would have schooled my son on what was to come with the NBA and the money, but if he got past that schooling and she enticed his ass, it would be me and her

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