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3 Things You HAVE To AVOID

Life is too short to be bothered with these THREE THINGS!

We should all have a list of things we will not tolerate from anyone, especially from people we don’t have to speak to.

My list is long, and the older I get, the longer my list gets. But I won’t bother writing my entire list today; I’ll stop at my three. However, on my podcast, I will be going into great detail about my list; some genuinely make me laugh out loud, but they are staying on the list.

THREE THINGS YOU HAVE TO AVOID

  1. BAD ENERGY~ I hear this term a lot, but is it a deal breaker? ABSOLUTELY YES. People with bad energy question why you’re so happy and upbeat. These people look forward to telling bad news and watching people fall on hard times. They are different from the people you go to when you have good news to share because they will ruin the high your own by pointing out one small detail that may not be so great. THEY ARE SOUL SUCKERS, and we don’t need them!
  2. Weird Vibes~ You have to follow your instincts. If you meet someone and have a conversation with them and feel like something is weird, then trust that vibe they are throwing off. Not everyone is meant to be your friend, so don’t force weird energy into your safe place. 
  3. Sneaky Shit~ We all have a little detective in us and can feel when something is off. Your gut will tell you when people around you don’t honestly like you and don’t have your best interest in mind. 

All three of these types hold one-sided and selfish conversations; time sucks, and they will quickly bond with people over their hatred of someone else. 

How pathetic is that, and not to mention a total waste of energy!

So many good people are waiting on you to walk into their life, so stop focusing on the soul suckers you need to let go of. Enjoy your life and live it HARD!

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Belladonna~

45 Replies to “3 Things You HAVE To AVOID”

  1. This is so relatable. Energy never lies and it never dies as they say. I try not to look back at all of the “should have” situations because now in my mid-30’s it’s just “I know better so I’ll do better.” I admit that I didn’t know much about energy vampires until the last couple of years, but everything that I have been able to pick up (much that was already told to me by my intuition), had only helped me to protect my own peace and good spirits. Allowing just anyone into your life is not good, which I now know. It’s refreshing now that I listen to my intuition and set those boundaries, especially now that I no longer accept those one-sided connections.

    I enjoyed reading your list! This list is like a really good start for many people who don’t understand the weight that energy holds. I also can’t believe that I am just noticing that you have a podcast and I’ll have to tune in. Better late than never!

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    1. You are right on time for the podcast, I just started! Thank you so much for your support.
      Isn’t it funny that all the drama leaves when you learn who to keep near you and who to stay clear from.

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  3. “These people look forward to telling bad news and watching people fall on hard times.” Why is this? I never understand this. Yes, yes, I get gossip, especially work or neighborhood. Sadly, I’ve participated in my share, but I’ve never gotten people being happy at someone’s demise. I always remember my mother asking me, how does that help you and me not having a very good answer. 🙂

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    1. Oh wow!!! I love that she said that. That’s really powerful. It’s so hard to imagine being that hateful that you want someone to lose.
      Talk about wasting energy and time that you will never get back. Thank you so much for reading Brian.

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  4. Amen! This is 110% True and relatable. I have chosen to avoid and weed out those who bring nothing but drama and bad energy into my life. My focus since I reached my late 30’s and early 40’s is nothing but positive vibes and positive energy. Half my life I have been dragged by those who have done nothing but wanted ill will for me and had absolutely nothing good to offer….Lessons learned. Now I’m all about good energy for mental health and my we’ll being. I’ve taken those learned lessons and they have helped me weigh the good and bad. I listen to my intuition. If my body picks up on bad vibes from people or certain places, I run. I don’t want to get put back in that bad trap again. Boundaries are of utmost importance.

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  16. This is 1000 true!!!! I have cut so many people from my life due to them doing these things. It’s such a relief knowing you have peace of mind without the negativity. Quiet can be good 👍 😌. Great post . Hope you are well and ready for Christmas 🎄 😀 😊 ☺️ 🙂

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