I’m not afraid to fail, but I’m scared of second-guessing myself, which could lead me to talking myself out of opportunities.
Do you second-guess yourself? If so, why?
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I do. I think second-guessing oneself comes with the territory of overthinking and being fearful.
Sometimes I have to remind myself that if there isn’t fear, it won’t change me or allow me to grow. When I do this, it’s easier not to fall victim to second-guessing myself.
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You are absolutely right Tre! Fear will prevent us from growing. why do we do this. Life is too short for this mess.
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Yes I do second guess myself
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You’re in good company!
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all the time, I think and rethink every possible scenario, over and over again, and then relive every moment of every day and conversation…..it’s been my life for almost 67 years
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Warren!! It’s so hard to stop this and I’m trying like crazy to just go and not think.
Has this prevented you from going forward with some of your goals?
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I try not to second guess. It’s helpful to remember any decision I’ve made was done with what I knew at the time. If any new informatioin comes to light, change direction accordingly.
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Oh I like this advice!!!!
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Sure do, cause it comes from my gut. And my gut is a good barometer. Points me to a new direction.
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Go Selma I like your reasoning and makes so much sense. you’re one smart lady.
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This is such a relatable and insightful fear. Second-guessing is the quiet thief of opportunity, often disguised as prudence. I think we all do it—our minds, trying to protect us from uncertainty, can become overzealous guards at the door of our own potential. Your awareness of it is the first and most powerful step to disarming it. Thank you for sharing such a honest and important reflection.
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Wow thank you so much friend your wonderful comment!!!!! Second guessing sure is a thief of opportunity.
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Great share sis! ❤️
I do. But try very hard not too. Is it fear, or change? I ask myself.
But I come to realize I’m worth more than second thoughts and a few maybes.
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You betta say that!!!!!!! You are worth so much, so go for whatever it is you desire.
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❤️❤️
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I can relate Queen B! Just do it! 🤜🏼🤛🏼 Do the darn thing! 💖🥂💞
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Amen girlie
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🤗💖🥰💋😘
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Yes. I think life and years of experience have taught me to second guess myself.
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Yes, life journey will def do that to you. Trying so hard to stop second guessing myself.
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It is easy to second guess ourselves. There can be lots to consider. When I’m unsure, I try to take time away and ground myself. I think, for the most part, if we can quiet ourselves and listen to our inner guidance we can feel more at ease with our decisions.
Your one lines always offer reflection ❤️
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LaDonna this is a great way to see yourself through. Thank you so much for this.
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❤️❤️
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Thank you so much
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You are always welcome dear Bella
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I used to second-guess myself a lot but thankfully don’t do that as much anymore. Loved the line and I agree, it leads us to missing out on opportunities. We should always try, even if we fail at lease we tried.
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I’m so glad you don’t do this anymore. You are young and full of hope and light, keep moving forward full speed ahead.
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