When you’re too busy not looking after yourself!
You make a late post on days like that. I didn’t mean to wait this long to publish a post, but the day got away from me.
So here I am, sitting in my closet with the door closed, writing this post and trying to hurry before my family comes looking for me. Today is supposed to be my day, but my husband insists on having a family movie night tonight instead of tomorrow.
He’s not fooling anyone by switching days. He thinks he is, but I know better!
Ya see, when he and I were away last weekend, our kids went to see the Barbie movie, and he was so jealous. He wanted to sit between his girls and make jokes throughout the film.
He actually told me that he was sad because our kids would have inside jokes about the movie, and he wouldn’t know what they were talking about. I said boy be quiet, and let’s enjoy our dinner. He said you’re right; I’ll enjoy our dinner and then see if they want to go again with me.
Y’all, we weren’t home more than five minutes when he asked them if they would go with him to see Barbie. Of course, they said yes, but he would have to wear pink like them. He happily agreed.
So there ya have it; I know he plans to see Barbie tomorrow, which is why movie Family movie night is tonight. Therefore MY day will be tomorrow!
Looking After Myself
I plan to look after myself by working out and making this delicious treat I will share with y’all on Tuesday. Then I’m going to lie in my bed and read for HOURS!
I would love to know how everyone plans to look after themselves.
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


I loved the Barbie movie. I think your husband is a trip. I hope he e joked the movie and that you enjoyed your alone time.
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He is definitely a trip and a big baby! LOL
They are heading out soon and I’m sure he’s going to have a blast with our girls.
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Enjoyed the movie sorry
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Aww! Dear Bella, sometimes we need to have a special space or time with our selves, understand you perfectly. But do not blame to your husband he is deeply in love with you, he can’t resist
your company. Maybe you can open a bottle of wine, some cheese, olives and relax, ask him for a foot massage, your daughter fix your nails and your boy prepares dinner. Then two things can happen or they all consent to you ot they go to their rooms and leave you alone…
Just an idea, enjoy your Friday evening. Thank’s!
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Elvira now that would be nice!!! You paint a pretty picture lady.
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Enjoy your “You” time.Can’t wait to see your treat on Tuesday.BTW, Barbie was wonderful, hope your hubby enjoys it too.💕
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I’m planning a me-day tomorrow too! Just chilling and doing nothing that I don’t want to do 💕
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Amen to that Paula!
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I am.goimg to have a few hours for myself tomorrow. I am debating between cleaning or asking my mom to lunch.
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Go to lunch, you can clean tomorrow! LOL
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Enjoy your family movie tonight!
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Thank you Hope!
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Enjoy your day!! I love staying in my pajamas, reading on the couch and writing.
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Thank you! Me too!!!! I hope you are having a great day too Leigh.
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I’m off a short holiday with family.
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Awwww nice! I hope you had a wonderful time. Sounds wonderful!
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Thanks! The holiday actually starts today. 4 days in the mountains
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Oh nice! Have and great time!
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Thanks 🙏🏼
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Enjoy your reading and have a great weekend 🙂
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Thank yyou Paul! I hope you are having a great weekend.
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You’re welcome and thank you. Yes, been having a very nice weekend as I’ve had family visiting 🙂
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Enjoy your weekend! Books are good companions.
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I hope you enjoy yours as well! Yes they are for sure.
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You’re welcome!
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Saw barbie last night. Love
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I heaard it was really good!
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Loved it
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Love that he wore pink! Taking time for yourself is sooo important. I love my ME time.
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Hey you!!!!!! So happy to see you commenting, my day is made!!!!
Yes he is wearing pink and if they wanted to he would wear glitter. LOL Anything to be invited to the movie.
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I think switching days is ok. It’s important to have a “you” day and a family day, whichever days they are.
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I agree Vanya! Thank you and happy Saturday to you.
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Enjoy your weekend beautiful Belladonna! 🌸
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Thank you Michele! I hope you have are having a wonderful weekend.
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😊🙏🏻
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Reading for hours sounds so enticing. I’m having a second cup of tea and thinking about art
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Oh nice VJ! Sounds peaceful
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Do share what he thinks about the Barbie movie 🙂
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I sure will!
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Enjoy Bella
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Thank you!
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💝
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Thanks for sharing your story. I think it’s sweet that your husband is so invested in spending time with the kids and being able to be a part of their experiences… Although I know it can be annoying as well lol. I went and saw Barbie last night with my two daughters. We actually left my husband and son at home to fend for themselves. They seem to be just fine. Although I think my son probably would have liked the movie! We enjoyed it. I even cried a few times.
My favorite way to look after myself is exercise. I’ve been enjoying a quiet, walk alone after dinner, listening to praise music on my headphones, and just enjoying the sky, the clouds, the sun set, the soft breeze, etc. Sometimes I can literally feel the anxiousness leaving my body. Happy Monday. I hope you have an amazing week.
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LOL! Yes it gets on my nerves at times for sure!
He is a mess!
Girl, I cried too. That was such a good plot and so much truth in the story being told.
Your sons will probably get a kick out of it. My son saw it the first time with my girls. This time he said, I’ll sit this one out. LOL
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Tomorrow is my day as well ♥️♥️♥️ I’m going to soak my feet in my homedics bubble foot spa and then I will lay back and relax in my hot tub for about an hour. If I get too relaxed I might take a mid afternoon nap or grab a good book to take me on a little mental getaway ☺️
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Lisa that sounds perfect!!! I hope you do just that💖
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I like Barbie too. Republicans scare of her dear Belladonna.
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Yes they are friend… yes they are!
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We have a bunch of fools in Washington D.C. It is a movie. Poor Barbie isn’t a communist dear Belladonna?
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Hard finding “you time” as a parent but whether it’s after midnight or early before they wake up I take a hour to do something for me
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That’s so good! Sometimes we need to think only about ourselves so that we don’t forget about us during the shuffle of life.
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Agreed
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