Bad guy; The weak needs one
What my six words are about.
If you haven’t learned anything else from my blog, I want you to let this sink in and know that if you are ever deemed the bad guy, then you are in good company!
Over the years, I’ve come to understand that the world will always find someone capable of carrying the torch. And when you realize that you’re the one holding it, it’s not a question of ‘Why me?’ but a recognition of your capability and strength.
You might even think of ways to release the torch and explain that you aren’t the bad guy—maybe you are the honest guy, but definitely not the bad guy.
And as long as you know that, then who gives a damn what anyone else thinks or has to say. Weak folks have to have a team of others around them because that’s when they feel like they have power—not realizing that numbers will never equate to strength but highlighting their stupidity and frail mindset.
My Challenge To You
If you are ever deemed the bad guy, go with it! Let the title roll off you and hit the damn floor. Then remove yourself from the scum that would rather hide behind you than stand up and be real! Don’t let them hide behind you, move out of the way and let the light expose them for the are.
Just move, say nothing, just move out of the way!
And when you move, watch how quiet things get, how uncomfortable they all become. Knowing well, damn, now that the one we pointed out to be the bad guy is gone, I’ll be exposed for the fraud that I am.
All is well when their crooked, dirty fingers are pointed at you, but watch all hell will break out when their truth is exposed.
Who’s the bad guy now?!

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~


Well said Bella! Bravo!
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Thank you so much!
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It does hurts when people think what we do is with bad intentions
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Initially it can but you quickly begin to see it coming and know what to expect from certain people.
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Very true.
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not sure if bad influence is the same thing..when I was younger, friends and myself would convince our parents that the other friends were the bad influences….not sure if they all believed that
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LOL were they? or were y’all the bad influence?
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t’s taken me almost 50 years to admit that I may know the instigator really really well……maybe
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uh oh! LOL who?
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Well argued 👌
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Thank ya!
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You’re welcome
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… maybe you are the honest guy, but definitely not the bad guy.
Yep, that’s the truth of it in my situation. I can’t help it if my honesty brings out the demons in you. It doesn’t make what I have to say any less truthful, does it?
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Nope the truth hurts and makes people lash out! I’m convinced that people only want to hear good things about them, even if it I a lie!
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Bad Boy, bad boy, whatcha gonna do, whatcha gonna do when the come for you? 👮🏻♂️🚓👮🏻♀️ Yes honey, sometimes you need a badass to have your back! Well spoken Queen B! 🤜🏼🤛🏼
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Thanks sis! We sure do need that. I need Madea!!! LOLOLOL
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Halleluyer Queen B! 🙌🏼😜🤜🏼🤛🏼
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A thought provoking post, I like to let people think of me as they want. If they want me to be the bad guy, I’m fine with that. I’m don’t care to show them otherwise.
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Pooja you are ahead of the game girl and wise!!!
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🤗💕
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It looks is going to be an amazing movie…
Thank’s dear for share.
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I sure hope so!!!!
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Agree dear!
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Thank you beautiful!
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I wish I cared much less about what others think about me. But like Pooja said, people are going to think what they want no matter what.
Great, thought provoking post, Bella!
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Yes they sure will so let them!!! And you keep being exactly the way you are.
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So true, that’s the stark reality of life.
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it sure is KK!
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You are welcome!
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Good advice! MJ, I’m bad, you know it! 😉😊
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Alright now!!!! I like it.
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😊Blessings!
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❤️❤️❤️
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