Love is always on the table

If you choose to gain her attention by suddenly and gently approaching her, she will politely say in her alpha female tone, "excuse me, I need to move around you." She knows that you want to talk to her, but she doesn't have to reciprocate that to everyone. A confident woman isn't desperate, and she values her time enough to be picky with whom she shares it.

Shit happens

After my shock wore off, I looked at him and said, "Okay, what do I need to do so we can take care of this?"