Don’t throw the first punch and then wonder why your ass just got knocked out!
Do you know someone that throws jabs at you? You know, the type of jabs that only you can hear. And then, when you get fed up, you fight back, and all hell breaks loose.
Here’s the thing, a few people in your life would like to be seen as the victim. If they are the victim, pity will flood into their lives, validating and rewarding their lewd behavior.
And you know what happens next, right?
Well, if you don’t, please allow me to tell you. All eyes will be on you, and crooked fingers will be pointing at you for being the bad guy. Someone always has to be the bad guy, and no one wants to take ownership of their wrongdoing. So lies or untruths (whichever word you want to use) will be told about you.
Which will then leave you with two options
You may have more options, but I’ll give you the two that work well for me.
OPTION #1
Pray about the situation and leave it with God. Leaving your problem with God can sometimes be difficult, But guess what? It’s not your problem, nor should it be your concern. So dump that situation off and continue to live the life you deserve and have acquired to live.
OPTION #2
If you have done what you needed to do in option #1, then option #2 doesn’t exist!
The next time you are faced with a “victim,” I want you to read this.
Dear “Victim,”
I no longer feel your punches, jabs, slaps, and insults. You don’t have the power to make me happy, tear me down, or receive a reaction towards your actions.
I am stronger because of you
I have the courage you tried to snatch from me
I have abilities that you can only dream of
I am free from all the evil you wished on me
I am free from all the demons you wished on me
I am free
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~
“I no longer feel your punches, jabs, slaps, and insults. You don’t have the power to make me happy, tear me down, or receive a reaction towards your actions.
I am stronger because of you
I have the courage you tried to snatch from me
I have abilities that you can only dream of
I am free from all the evil you wished on me
I am free from all the demons you wished on me
I am free”
Amen!
Girl folks will try ya! But saying this and reminding myself of who I am, helps so much!
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Wow! Wow! Wow! Wonderful post! I am free… Empowering words! Thank’s for share.
Have a lovely week!
You are the best! So glad you liked this one
Thank’s! Always a pleasure.
Such wise advice , Belladonna. Wonderful post.💕🙏💕
Thank you Grace, that means so much to me.
My pleasure 💕😊💕
BOOYAH!!! 🤜🏼🤛🏼 Like I said before, don’t start nothin’ it won’t be nothin’! Love your image BTW. Looks like you…red dress 👗 with boxing gloves on! 🥊🥊 It’s very…Cancerian-ish!!! LOL
LOLOL it is a total Cancerian vibe for sure. Classy with a little splash of thug nasty! LOL
and yes gril don’t start no mess!
Belladonna, girlfriend you got me rollin’ here! Oh no, not the splash of THUG nasty! LMAO! 🤣😜😲😝😂
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As I said, you and Kym are my main inspiration. Dear Bella, thank you so much for sharing these wonderful posts. They make me feel highly inspired and keep me motivated. Feel very blessed to have you all as great friends. ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊🥰🥰🥰
I could just give you the BIGGEST HUG!!!!! You have no idea how big you just made me smile. Thank you so much and I feel the same about you.
Awesome advice Belladonna. I know someone who needs to read this today
Thank you Sadje! People who play the victim are so tiring.
Indeed they are
A wonderful post! Lovely advice!
I appreciate that so much!
You are speaking some powerful truth here.
Thank you Molly!! 🙌🏽♥️♥️♥️♥️
Option #1. Just when I needed the reminder. 🙏🏻
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ so glad you needed this and I hope I helped
💖bob and weave with the Lord🤗I’m in training right now🙏🏼 Great Share with a solution!
This sounds like me! LOLOL Bob and weave is right. The training never ends.
preach it girl! <3
Thank you! welcome to my blog
I love the name of yours and can’t wait to check it out!
Thank you tons! <3 I look forward to reading more from you as well.
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