Take your peace back by any means necessary.
One thing that everyone can become a pro at is; avoiding people that aren’t for you.
When I look back on the people that used to be in my life, I stop and think, why are they out of my life now? But the biggest question is, do I want them back?
Well, the answer is easy, if you are out of my life, it’s primarily due to me changing ME so that I could coexist with them. That’s the dumbest thing you can ever do. You should never lose who you are so that others can find comfort. NOOOO! That will never work long-term.
And as far as the second question is concerned, I never want something that didn’t feel good back in my life. I don’t have a desire to rekindle an old friendship if I never grew from it. So if I didn’t grow from it before, why would I now?
If this resonates with you, take every step you need to order to start fresh.
- Don’t try to fit in
- Stand out
- Be comfortable with being alone until you find your tribe
- Spend time working on you
- Read your bible….(my saving grace)
- Speak positivity over your life
- Trust your instincts
- Be true to yourself
Look after yourself by being picky about who you let into your life!
I hope you all are having a beautiful Friday!
Please leave me one thing you do to look after yourself.
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
~Belladonna~
Happy Friday to you.
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Happy Friday🥳
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Wow! Wonderful post! Very inspiring, so creative! Thank’s for share, Belladonna.
Love it! Beautiful colors too! Have a lovely time full of blessings!
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Thank you!!! Have a blessed and extremely exciting weekend Elvira 💜💜💜💜
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Aww! Thank’s! You as well!
Enjoy! Dear Belladonna.🙏💜💜💜💜
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So true, Belladonna. I have only kept a VERY small percentage of people in my life. I truly believe that quality is way greater than quantity. Great post. Keep shining.💕
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You nailed it! Yes I completely agree.
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Happy you agree, Belladonna 💕🙏💕
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Wonderful advice.
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Thank you! I h ope hou have a wnderful weekend! Any bike trips planned?
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Never try to fit in, it’s the worst!
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It really is, such a waste of time! So good to see you oveer here lady.
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The moment you start valuing yourself more, you won’t be bothered to fit in nowhere! Trying to catch up with some blog posts:-)
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Amen girl!!!!!! You will not have the desire to care.
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Not at all!
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Yes, yes, yes…BE TRUE TO YOURSELF! As that song said, “If it don’t fit, don’t force it, just relax and let it go! What? 🎤🎤🎤
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Ayyyyyye!!!! Now I feel like skating while listening to this song! Yessssssss
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There you go girl. The stars are aligning for you! sistah! Reach out and touch! ⭐🤩🌟
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yesssss!!! LOL
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Why am I blasting this song while replying to comments! LOLOLOL
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Don’t force it, just relax and let it go… 💃🏽🎶👯♀️
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Please leave me one thing you do to look after yourself.
I give myself permission to not care about some people. I don’t hate on them, instead I let them go. Adios
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Ally that is the best thing we can do! I couldn’t agree more.
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Quit dating! 💕💕💕
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Love the list! Happy weekending to you!
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Thank you Michele! Happy Friday!!!
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Thank you Belladonna this post was for me today! Thank you very much. 💖💖
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Awww Suzette I am so happy you felt this. I hope you havae a wonderful weekend my friend. Thank you for saying that.
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Thanks again. Happy Weekend! Yay
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Very sensible advice Belladonna. Thanks
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Thank you Sadje, I hate t see others lose themselves because they think they are supposed to play a certaaain character inorder to have friends.
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Yes, unless we are true to ourselves, we cannot find happiness.
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Absolutely 💜💜💜
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👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
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One thing that can be done is… practicing self love. No one else is gonna do it if u can’t do it yourself.
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That is the key!!!! Thank you for adding that. I appreciate you stopping by 💜
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Very sound advice, Belladonna. What has been difficult for me in taking my peace back is that I had to distance myself from my mother, recently deceased, and siblings. I know that healing will only come in learning to forgive myself and each one of them. Blessings ❤
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I and I know so many others can relate to this. I only have a relationship with one of my siblings, my mother and I never talk and we’ve never been close. So I get it.
Forgiving takes a long time but it helps to surround yourself with people that truly loves you.
Thank you so much for sharing. Blessings to you Rosaliene 💜💜
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This is such great advice especially about standing out. Too many people are afraid to be different but that’s what makes us unique!
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Absolutely Pooja!!!! We are to great to fit in!!🥳🎉😍🙌🏽💪🏽
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Happy Weekend! Great post 💙
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Hope you’re having a great weekend 💖
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Following all the rules daily, love it!!
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You are a pro at staying focused!!!😍😍😍
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