What’s ONE thing you can live without

I’ll go first!

We can all live without something unwanted in our life. But, unfortunately, things and people will keep popping up to cause our nerves to become rattled or get on our damn nerves.

There are several things that I can live without, but the one major one is ARGUING!

I will agree and walk away, then stick around and go back and forth with someone. At this point in my life, all I want is PEACE If you can’t offer me that, then I will dump you off at the city dump where you belong and never look back.

When I was younger, I found it normal to waste time arguing my point with anyone and everyone. If I felt that my cause was accurate, I found it difficult to back down.

Geesh, I wasted valuable time that I will never get back!

Now you go!

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Belladonna~

65 Replies to “What’s ONE thing you can live without”

  1. Mine is negativity! I’m trying to get my hubby to be more positive because every time I get in the car with him, he expects the worst of people, or the worst situation that could happen. Drives me insane!
    Music. I can’t live without music 🎶 ☺️

    1. I’m with you on that. Negativity will drive me insane. Maybe the move is wearing him thin, ya think? But even so I totally understand your point. Music I cannot live without that as well.

  2. I can live without toxic people… life is too short to bring toxicity into our lives and allow it to stay.
    My hubby said he can live without bad drivers. Road rage is on the rise in our area and bad drivers only escalate the problem.

    1. You are both right and I agree!!!
      Road rage is something I refuse to be apart of. People are crazy and There is no telling what folks will do if you join in on the rage l!!!

      1. Yes, ma’am. But for every irate patient, I probably get about six who aren’t and are exceptionally friendly. So, I’ll take those odds, but you know … It gets old rather quickly with evil people. Lol.

  3. The one thing I can live without is people from my high school. Don’t need that kind of small town negativity to bring me down– and explains why I’m not on FB.

  4. I lived a large portion of my life in various drama-stories, some told to me, some I created, all toxic. When we hang on to these stories, we attract like-minded people into our lives. No más for me. No more drama for the sake of drama. I quit it a few years ago, and am much healthier for it. Thank you for this reflective space, Belladonna. Happy Saturday! 💜

    1. Jeff I can not imagine you involved in nay drama. But like you I was once involved in too much drama. Enough is Enough.
      Thank you so much for joining the conversation. I appreciate you my friend.

      1. It’s been a few years, and each day without the constant drama is a day of more sanity and overall health. You’re most welcome, Belladonna. Always. Thank you, my friend, I appreciate you too.

  5. Girl, you hit the nail on the head Belladonna. I too engaged in arguing a point because it made sense (to me). 😱 Honey chile, I’m like Mary J…no more freaking drama. I have enough to worry about. Word? 🤩👏🏼😊

      1. You’re welcome it’s great to see like minded people sharing and dropping gems love it babe!!

  6. I totally get what you mean. My hubby and in laws will go round and round. They have to be right lol I’m like no really. If they still do not agree, I just say okay and move on. Doesn’t matter who is right, what matters is that both parties walk away better than they entered the conversation.

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