Having a long healthy, and happy life is a goal we all must have!
Here’s the thing we don’t know what tomorrow brings, and whether you like it or not, we all have an expiration date. So while I’m here, I want to own my days.
There were times in my life that I scooted by with hopes of living my best, but today I am living the best I can. I’m not saying I’m my best self, but I’m better than yesterday and on a steady climb.
Looking back and stepping forward
No one knows it all or how to get through life without making mistakes. But we do know what makes us feel like we are respected and loved. Looking back, I mistakenly thought my friendship or love was mutually unconditional. But, unbeknownst to me, there were underline conditions.
I should have seen them, and I know I’m not the only one who didn’t look after themselves to ensure the relationship/friendship/respect was mutually supported.
Never be someone’s second choice.
There are various things you can be in life; however, one of them can include being anyone’s second choice. Once shown that you are not valuable and respected, you should head towards the door and look after yourself by ensuring the door is fully closed. Then to further ensure that the door remains shut, you need to look at the pattern this person exhibits.
I’m sure you are not the first person this individual tried to burn. So don’t take it personally. Just protect yourself by moving on.
The revenge is not yours… karma is a bitch, and every jackass will meet her at one time or another.
So don’t you concern yourself with trying to get even or allowing anyone to live rent-free in your mind. The best thing you can do is make sure you are living in a way that will offer you a long healthy, and happy life. Therefore if you haven’t started taking care of yourself, then today is the perfect day to begin LOOKING AFTER YOURSELF!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!
29 Replies to “Look After Yourself Friday”
Oh yes, well said
Thank you Sadje!!!💜💜💜 Happy FRIDAY to you😍
Same to you too my friend
So true. Wonderful message.💕
Thank you Grace💜💜💜 Hope you’re having a great Friday.
You’re so welcome . I sure am. Hoping the same for you .💕
I often remind myself that Karma is a bitch and she knows where people live. This makes me happy when I realize someone has been unkind to me.
Me too Ally!!!! Love to see it!
Karma will get them better than we ever can so don’t lose sleep over anything!
So true. Self-care is essential.
It’s a must for me.
I went years without looking after myself but made sure everyone else was better than okay!
Girl Belladonna, oh no you did-ent >>> The revenge is not yours… karma is a bitch, and every jackass will meet her at one time or another. 🤣😝😆😜😂 I am too done!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m like Karma please don’t forget so and so! LMAO!!!
I have had to do this several times. It’s not easy but you are right, it is the best thing to do. I can look back now and see that leaving was definitely the right choice. Hope you are having a good day. Hi from New Zealand
So glad that you know you made the best choice for you! Protect your peace.
Hello New Zealand…. I’m honored 😍🙌🏽
Thank you, you seem like a lovely lady who has courage to stand up for what she believes. More ladies should be like you.
Well that’s a huge compliment. I’m trying to be a better and courage person. Thank you so much!
That’s ok, you deserve it.
Agree with you self care is so important. Thank’s for share.
Have a wonderful weekend!
Thank you Elvira and yes self care is crucial for mental health💗
Hope you’re having a great Friday!
Exactly! Great post as always! 🙏💖
Have a lovely weekend!
so true. had a very uncomfortable day with a co-worker who was awol at best, and less than a co-worker…I let that get to me, she was renting space in my head, I’ve gotta stop letting her do that
Yes!!!! She is not worth it. Don’t sacrifice your mental health for anyone.
Absolutely, look after yourself and let karma take care of the rest!
Yessss🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 karma knows where everyone lives!