Every so often, I become hooked on a movie. The movie of choice right now is, yes, you guessed it; “He’s just not that into you.”
Watching this movie made me think a lot of myself. I am always so skeptical of a man’s intentions, and I can feel when their intent is off.
So after a lot of thinking and going back and forth, I have decided to be my blunt self right here on my blog. My goal is to let it all out and give my honest opinion if a guy or girl is into you or not. So please join me once a week for a real-life situation between two people that should’ve thought twice before wasting their time.
Case 1~ Is he into her?
My first case is between a 43-year-old woman and a 45-year-old man. I’m giving ages because when a woman hits a certain age, she does not want to waste valuable time with a loser. Either you want to be with her, or you don’t…. she does not have time to waste!
They met online
After a horrible breakup, she was ready to try her hand at another relationship. Believe it or not, she had total faith in cupid, pointing his arrow and making it straight into her new lover’s heart. But boy, oh boy, did he miss by a mile.
They chatted on the phone nonstop for two weeks!
The conversation went from what’s your favorite color to what’s your favorite position. I’m not sure who initiated the last question, but I do know they were equally eager to release all the details.
He asked her out on a date in the city, and she happily accepted his invitation. They laughed and talked over dinner, and when the waiter came by to see if they wanted dessert, she assured him they didn’t need it. However, she had something else in mind, and he knew what it is so, her date asked for the check. He paid, and they headed to her place.
At about one o’clock in the morning, he headed home.
A week went by, and she didn’t hear from him. She wondered if he would ever call again, and after a week, she gave up hope. It’s as if he was intentionally dodging her calls. But after a long week, he finally called. He gave her the usual lame excuses;
“Oh, uh, work has been crazy.”
“I wasn’t feeling well.”
“I thought I had covid.”
She listened and was okay with all his excuses. So they met up for dinner and headed back to her place. And the missing in action and occasional meetups happened for the next six months. Then, finally, one day, he told her he wasn’t ready for a relationship and needed to focus on himself.
The phone went dead, and so did her bed. From time to time, she glared at her phone, hoping he would call and say that he was ready for a relationship. Which he probably was, only not with her.
Do you realize she put herself in danger by allowing this fool to return to her house? And then, when she put up with him coming and going as he pleased, he put her health at risk. She had no idea who he was with or what he was doing with random people.
The first time he went a week without calling her, she should have known that he was not into her. Because if he was wild, horses couldn’t have pulled him away from her.
Better luck next time, cupid!
I would love to know your thoughts on this love affair!!!!!
You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!