B.Y.O.E. and that’s ALL you need

Worry about yourself and watch your life change!

Okay, so I have a confession: there are many things that I dislike. However, like many of you, some things are hated more than others. I made a list of things I hate to hear people say, and the following topped the list;


Ummmmm NO. Don’t do that! Why would you waste your time matching negative energy? Now I can see if you want to be as positive as the person before you or strive to be. But why on earth would you stoop as low as the negative Nancy that’s bringing deadbeat energy?

Instead of matching the energy, you need to move far from it. 

Once upon a time, I would treat folks the way they treated me, but I quickly saw that that put me in a terrible mood and made me feel jittery, uneasy, and all around moved me to bad space. My mind would not move away from how that person just treated me, and it left me feeling vengeful. All sorts of negative thoughts would take up space in my brain.

And for what?

I would find myself saying, “the next time I see that person, I’m going to be so mean and ready to give them a piece of my mind.” 

All I can say is, thinking like this is a waste of time! 

Trying to match energy will make you feel like you have split personalities, and you’ll end up battling no one but yourself. 

Life is hard enough so let’s not make it rougher than it has to be—our first step to a happier day, month, year, and life is choosing to be unapologetic concerning who you are and the energy you bring. 

B.Y.O.E. and never leave home without it!

You could have chosen any blog to read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!


7 Replies to “B.Y.O.E. and that’s ALL you need”

  1. Yes if the vibe is off that’s negative energy that doesn’t exist. Sometimes we fall into that trap of worrying about others that we forget ourselves. Focusing on becoming better and protecting my energy by staying away from the negative energy.

    1. Yes!!!!!! That’s what we need to so we can make each day count. Refusing to waste precious time on negativity will have you looking forward to each and every day 🙌🏽💝

  2. Girl Belladonna, this is a triple mic drop moment!!! 🎤🎤🎤 Bring Your Own Energy! Why? Because ain’t nobody gonna bring it for you. It takes us a while to learn these lessons doesn’t it? 🤭 But oh when we do, we are new creatures, and others can tell. Booyah! 🤜🏼🤛🏼

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