LOVE who you are.LOVE who you ain’t

I am a lot of things, but a few things I’m not is a liar, irresponsible, irrational, or someone flighty when it comes to their emotions and words. I say what I mean and mean what I say; I’ve always been this way.

I love who I am, and I love who I ain’t. 

The truth is, I’m blessed, and I make a solid attempt to hide just how blessed I am because people will turn against me. Only the people who are meant to be in your life will remain. And sometimes you want more, even if that more isn’t good for you. That is until you have received the strength to let bullshit people and bullshit things go. 

You start to live the moment you elect peace and pride to be in the forefront of your life. You will no longer feel the need to hide and cover up your blessings because of the cold shoulder you know the folks that know you in real life will give you. WE and I use we very lightly because I do not own these feelings; WE would rather encourage, praise, and clap for people we don’t know.

It’s easier to do that because they aren’t a threat in our everyday lives; we don’t have a significant need to compare ourselves to a “celebrity.” But, yes, we will, with a frown on our faces, share pictures of their houses, cars, clothes, shoes, and the exotic trips they have taken and will say, “Must be nice.”

But the point is we liked the picture, shared it, and probably left a comment. However, most of those same people would rather eat a bucket of worms than show any praise to someone doing well that they know in real life. 

Instead, they will make a weak attempt to tear you, your family, and all of your collective accomplishments to the ground. So Expect the phony people to show up and show out in your life, but don’t let it get you down. Say a quick prayer for their broken spirit and keep winning!

With every win in your life, a smart remark, fabrication, or full-on lie will drop from a viewer’s mouth. Let it drop and close your ears and mind off to all of it. After a while, it becomes easy; I know it has for me BECAUSE;

I love who I am, and I love who I ain’t!

Keep winning, my beautiful people, and if no one is in your corner, know that I AM.

I LOVE who you. I LOVE who you ain’t!

You could have chosen any blog o read, but you chose mine, and I’m honored!

~Belladonna~