Have you noticed that people are growing more eager to jump into a relationship with anyone and force the word LOVe into the equation? My only question is, “What’s the damn rush”?
I know times have changed since I existed out of the dating scene, but I don’t remember desperation being in my equation. So what’s up with women falling in love with the first man that shows them interest? If you ask me, and I know you’re not, but let’s pretend you are. People are a little too eager to fall in LOVe and afraid to be alone.
Did you know that there are dating pages on Facebook? Oh yes, there is something for everyone. They have;
- Black women looking for black men and vice versa.
- White women looking for white me and vice versa
- Christians looking for Christians
- Black me looking for white men
- Black women looking for white women
Well, you get my point. I know people that have met on Facebook and SHOCKER; it was a nightmare. But, unfortunately, the love affair they rushed into ended up being nothing more than a sexual experience. As a result, hearts were broken, tears were shed, and most of all, valuable time was wasted. However, on the bright side, she didn’t contract a sexually transmitted disease….. So there’s that!
Not only is LOVe being found on Facebook, but TikTok is a new hot spot.
I am amazed by how many people are traveling to meet with total strangers. They have no idea if they are meeting a serial killer, rapist, or even a pedophile that preys on women with children. Let’s face it, just because someone makes a few funny TikToks doesn’t mean they are worth putting yourself in harm’s way.
I have listened to over 100 people reencounter horror stories of the person they instantly fell in LOVe with over Tiktok. Which, if I may add, is not love. That’s stupidity and dangerous!
What happened to Match.com, speed dating, or other services that screen people for you? Are those outdated and not cool anymore?
As a mom, I would rather have my kids go through a legitimate dating site and avoid someone trying to become a star on TikTok. Or better yet, sit down somewhere and stop being overly eager to fall in LOVe. LOVe will come; be patient!
We all want to be loved and to LOVe. But don’t just give it to anyone. Hold out for that special someone, that deserves your LOVe.
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