You can go into an ice cream shop and build your own heavenly sundae. You can go to a car lot and build your ideal car.
You can go to a vacant piece of land and build the house of your dreams. But there are some things you just can’t build. One of which is MAN. So stop trying.
I have several single friends in my life, and I once, a very long time ago, was single. I vaguely remember those days. It seems as though I’ve been cleaning up behind my husband and making dinners for a hundred years. Side NOTE: I choose to cook and clean because, well… I’m kinda good at it, and I have a slight cleaning problem that no one can live up to.
I often ask my 19-year-old and my single friends what type of man they are looking for. The answers I get literally make me LAUGH OUT LOUD. And I’m like, well, if you find that man, please send me one too.
The Total Package
Building a man that is six foot and over, bank account stacked to the ceiling, muscles on top of muscles, cooperate job or own business, likes to travel abroad, no children, surprises you with presents, attentive, knows how to clean, cook, not afraid of anything. I could go on with the build a package, but I think you get my unrealistic point.
Perfect For ME
I have dreadful news!
When the “perfect” (and I use that term loosely) man comes along, he won’t be a quarter of those things but guess what, you aren’t either. You may think you are the cream of the crop, but you aren’t.
NOONE is the perfect person. There are things that you need your significant other to possess because you lack and vice versa. The two of you will complement each other and grow into your ideal person. That is if the love is true.
You’ll know when you stumble across the right person. He might only have a dollar to his name, unorganized, can’t cook to save his life, a little out of shape, and fearful of many things. But has every want and desire to change. And with the right person, he will.
He may not be perfect, but he will be PERFECT for you!
I love this song, and so hits my soul. Missy Elliot nailed it with her lyrics
Nobody’s perfect, baby, but you’re perfect for me….. AHHHHHHHH
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