It Took This

It took a pandemic to sit me down and reevaluate my life. It wasn’t too long ago that I decided to move my business to an online service. Best decision I ever did because I now can help more people and give them all more of my attention.

Before making this decision, I was spending hours per day in my car and leaving me less time to focus on my household… Felt like I was constantly running around in circles.

Then this Corona nightmare happened!


Sat my butt right down and gave my entire household time to think about all the areas that suck up our time. These areas include people!


I spent entirely to much time at the gym talking to women that I called “friends” only to realize that the majority of them don’t mean a damn thing to me. Every time I turned around, someone was throwing a party or moving and wanted help with both. I would reluctantly go and help out (as if I had time for this). Then I would come home, clean, cook, grocery shop, make sure everyone was doing what they were supposed to do and catch up on work.

However, since we have been forced to limit our activities, I’ve noticed that my anxiety is GONE! I don’t have to worry about people asking me to do anything or go anywhere. I no longer have meaningless conversations. I only talk to the people who are near and dear to me. I don’t even waste my time texting insignificant people.

Not to mention, I have more time to focus on my business. I hate that it took a pandemic that’s killing thousands because we have a jack ass of a leader that did nothing to protect us.

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2 Replies to “It Took This”

  1. The pandemic is obviously a very sad situation however I’m so glad you were able to the circumstances in a positive way. It can be difficult to be productive with so much going on but it’s so awesome to see you making changes and improving your work. I’m glad this will save you time and will help you work with more people online.

    1. Thank you so much!!! I try to stay postive because anger and frustration will get me nowhere fast. Yes I love being able to connect more with my peeps but I definitely miss my 70 and up crew. They are the sweetest.

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