The question is, do you? If you had to rate your marriage or relationship with your significant other, would you say it was hot or not? If not, what are you going to do to make it hot? Some of us are perfectly fine with a lukewarm partner. Let’s face it we are living in a world where couples are swinging in order to keep their relationship on a hot status. Many of my clients were either swingers or personally knew swingers. They all told me that it was exciting and kept their marriage interesting. Ummmmm I think not.
Here is where I stand. Swinging gets a big fat HELL NO from me. If I have to do something that preposterous to keep you then you aren’t worth keeping and I will enthusiastically move on with my life. Cause that ain’t hot!
I have been married for 18 1/2 years and we have never once entertained that idea. Do I have eyeballs and notice attractive men? Of course. Does E have eyeballs and notice attractive women? Yes, he does but he better not even look that way. Just kidding. Looking never hurt anyone but he better not stare.
I feel once folks allow their marriage or relationship to take that turn then please sit by and wait for the next event to occur. When swinging gets old then what is next? We all get used to situations and are always in search for more. We need more to fulfill and satisfy us. So at what point do you say okay I am all swung out and I am content with just being with you? Will that point ever come?
What are your thoughts?
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