Broken People

A broken person will always try to break you until they find out what you’re made of. I can’t even begin to tell you how many people have entered my life and tried to recreate what God had intended. But wait, don’t get me wrong if your thinking that this applies to strangers only then please think again. Broken people are in all areas of your life. It’s your job to identify who they are and ruin their plans.

I am a mother of 3, and I am continually telling my children to be mindful of whom they are bringing into their life. They have to be aware that their company carries a definite presence. A broken person will watch how you move and interact with people. They will make it their mission to ruin peoples perception of you and your positive view on life.

Let’s face it we all know people that will laugh and talk with you and make you feel as though your existence matters. Then as soon as you walk away, they will do everything to destroy your character. In the past that behavior would have infuriated me. However, I learned to deal with it the best way I know how. By saying nothing because I can show you how strong I am better than I can tell you.

My strength lies with the ability to use every situation as a building block. Not only will I use that block to step up and get me closer to greatness. But I will use that Block as a barrier and never allow you to reenter in my comfort zone. My peace of mind is far too important to allow broken people in my area. I refuse to forgive and forget. I have always had an issue with the phrase. Instead, I will forgive, but I will never forget what that broken person did. Pushing the wrong behavior to the side and pretending as though nothing ever happened is doing a disservice to yourself. Oddly by forgiving and forgetting and then allowing that person to reenter your life is a reward. Why would you choose to reward negative behavior?

Now allow me to repeat, I am a firm believer in trying to forgive the broken person because it will free my mind. However, I have zero interest in learning who or what broke you. I can pray for you and wish you the best. But I can’t waste my life on trying to figure out why people do what they do unless I am of course a trained psychologist. Which I am not so, I would be of zero value to you in that regards. Instead, I only choose to offer my fellow positive, and uplifting, beautiful persons this advice concerning broken people.

Broken people will always try to break you until they find out what you’re made of. So be brave and stand firm on the truth that you are too strong to break and therefore to determine to lose.

You could have chosen any blog to read but you chose mine and I’m honored.

~Belladonna~

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